How to get rid of feelings to a guy I just met but literally want him to have my babies lol?

[Anonymous]

I have gone insane. Met this guys 2 weeks ago at my grad school and I think he’s the one. I want to marry him LOL

Yeah so this guy we had lots of in depth convos he’s the same religious sect as me which is rare from where I’m from but not for him. He’s nice and always asks me to get me food. Says I’m a gem and an “absolute unit?” And oh he's HOT AF, a 10 out of 10 actually

First day I met him I was wet AF just looking at him. He makes me want to be a better person and get into religion more.

He’s just a perfect sweet guy and I really don’t get the vibes he likes me because he 1. Calls me dude 2. Doesn’t respond to my messages (but we are also in intense grad school and have a test coming up.

I’m in love with him absolutely in love. I haven’t felt like this in ages but I have a feeling he doesn’t reciprocate. I’m usually the heart breaker and guys run after me. I’m like an 8 while he’s a 10. How do people cope with unreciprocated feelings? Should I even think about him falling in love with me? I think he at least wants to be friends because he’s friendly but how do I be friends with someone I’m in love with and literally want to get married to. If you read my long story thank you I love you too like this was long so sorry.

[Anonymous]

focus on grad school and graduating because love don't pay the bills and he sure as hell won't help you get a career in the field you're studying for

[Asker]

You’re right I’m so stressed about school but am so distracted I can’t get my mind around it at all

[Asker]

Like I’m a Virgin for religious reasons lol and I literally NEED dick i can’t focus

[Opinion Owner]

jesus christ go and masturbate or buy a vibrator off amazon or something and fuck your pussy with that and to some porn ffs

[Opinion Owner]

well i'll tell you something if all you can think about is getting dick then when you get knocked up by one of those dicks then you won't be able to finish grad school and be surrounded in constant student loan debt with nothing to show for it and be living at home with your mom and dad while raising your kid under their roof while they bitch their heads off at you for not working or finishing school. is that what you want? so think about your perogatives first

[Asker]

Lol I masturbate but even since I met him like I have to do it like 5 times a day it’s BAD

[Asker]

And yeah I wouldn’t ever have sex with him unless we were married so like I won’t get knocked up no worries. He is also a Virgin and is probably against masturbstion lowkey I don’t think he’d ever do anything with me lol like I’ve def had the chance to have sex but I am trying to be “strong” lol

[Asker]

Like we’re out here in class and instead of thinking about class im thinking about how great it’d be h his dick in my mouth lol

[Opinion Owner]

ok that's to much info right there

[Opinion Owner]

i seriously doubt he's against masturbation. he probably whacks his dingdong pecker to you he just won't tell you

[Asker]

No he’s like religious religious not just religious lol so I don’t think he’d even do that out of fear from God. I know lots of religious guys do but I think he’s one that doesn’t prob. thank you for listening to me lol

[Asker]

I’m on my period now I think my body really just wanted me to be pregnant lol. I’m fine now.

[John_Mac1222]

Play it cool. Tons of guys were in same situation with you.

[Asker]

How do you play it cool? Yeah but those guys were all pure lust. They just wanted to get in bed with me. Which like def I want to get in bed with this guy but I also have some more pure intentions too. I want to get married to him

[John_Mac1222]

Maybe those guys was based on lust but also maybe it wasn’t. The truth is different people are attracted to different types of people. A 10 to one person is a 5 to another. Also, attraction being complicated for both sexes is not just based on looks. I would recommend trying not to fantasize about him and try meeting other guys

[Asker]

They definitely were lust and physical attraction. I was dating a guy for awhile and guys would be like oh darn it fell in love with your smile or your beauty etc something cheesy or it was at the bars I’d be wearing a tight outfit and low cut. That’s true he’s probably looking for someone religious and that’s not me. I want to be that person now, but In his eyes without religion I’m probably a 2 lol problem is he’s the first hot guy I’ve ever met from my religious sect and that’s a big deal for me to find someone with the same one

[John_Mac1222]

I’m sure there is plenty of hot guys of your religion. You found one so you are very attracted. That’s the truth you have no choice but to move on

[Asker]

there's actually not many especially from the region I’m in. Good chance we are the only 2 in this state. But yeah my question is how do I move on

[Asker]

I keep making these dumb scenarios in my head where I make him homemade brownies blueberry muffins and stuff lol

[John_Mac1222]

Well you could just poison him with a blueberry muffin and then move on

[Asker]

I’m on my period now I think my body really just wanted me to be pregnant lol. I’m fine now.

[John_Mac1222]

Wow. That was quick. Moved on already. Jk

[Asker]

lol yeah quick how the tables turned

[Asker]

i don't like him but im salty he doesn't like me like I'm cute and hot. I'm smart and talented. I am the full package lol.

[Asker]

AND I'd let him f me everyday twice a day three time a day lol

[have_a_good_day]

Guys can't have babies

[Asker]

Ur not wrong there exactly

[keirl]

Don't rush people change especially behind closed-door

[Asker]

That’s true but I want who he is now he’s so hot I’ll take whatever is behind the door too lol