Guys, I deactivated my fb account to make ex miss me will this work?

[jolee1]

i deactivated my fb account so my ex can't see what I'm up to I didn't want to delete him. do you think he will wonder what's going on and text me. were still in contact with one another..

what other things could I do to get my guy to miss me?

[Anonymous]

If my ex did that I wouldn't think twice. But your ex might like it if he was holding back on showing how good of a time he is having since the breakup. Posting pics of another woman he is interested in or even posting he's in a relationship with someone.

He will only miss you if he wants to be with you.

[jolee1]

hes not in a relationship with someone else or off with others I know him really well. I'm still sleeping with him. ?

[Eiffelgirl21]

I do not think it is wise to sleep with him...its just letting him have what he wants without you having what you want. I would just be careful...I am single..just recently broke up with my bf..and he wants to see me, date me, sleep with me,..but, not be serious with me...? no. I do not think so. I'm not his whore.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't blame him Eiffelgirl21, you are hot. :D But I do agree, it isn't wise to sleep with him. You are better off looking for someone who will treat you right. You may be missing Mr Right since you are still dabbling with your ex. He's an ex for a reason after all.

[toulouse]

hes an EX, de activating something that you use in your life, not just with him, just to make him notice you are gone, this is the equivelent of passive groveling.

[WovenEclipse]

I don't think that would be very effective personally :( sorry... he may not even notice it was deleted

[Anonymous]

do you guys talk otherwise? how long have you been broken up and how did it end?

[jolee1]

we broke up 6 weeks ago. we had a fight. we had break up sex a week later.. 3 weeks later I sent him a letter to say I would change and to try again. he's been thinking about it since he's plagued down with 70 hour work weeks atm. and is pretty tired we have been meeting up once a week since?

[Opinion Owner]

it sounds like right now he has all the power in what's happening. You need to take some of the power back in what's going on between you two. I wouldn't deactivate but maybe be very vague, no posting "i wish he'd take me back...sigh" or anything negative. Only positive stuff and vague. "Last night was great :)" make him think he's losing something and he needs to act. if you're just hanging around he has the luxury of time to mull it over and decide hmmm nah this won't work.

[Anonymous]

yes he will want to know what's going on. My ex is the same way but we don't really keep in touch anymore though. You can't make a person miss you, I know I've tried. Do you miss him?

[jolee1]

like crazy its only been 6 weeks he inities the catch up and we do once a week in between his 70 hour work weeks its crazy those hours are about to go back to normal tho, and I'm about to go overseas for 2 weeks so he will miss me then too hopefully

[Anonymous]

Only if he still thinks about you. If he doesn't then he won't even notice.