Why would a guy delete his whole Facebook account?

[Anonymous]

My ex tried to get with me sexually and when I told him no then he deleted his whole Facebook account? Why do you think he did this. It's bizarre

[NamerOfStars]

Pragmatism. That probably wasn't his reasoning, though. Most likely, he was especially frustrated, and your rejection was the straw that broke the camel's back. It probably wasn't entirely in response to you.

[Asker]

Good point also

[Anonymous]

I used to always text my ex wife when I was drunk.
I would always regret it, but I just couldn't help it. Eventually I just got rid of facebook and messenger. I didn't want to message her anymore and I didn't want her messaging me either.
Uninstalling it was the best option because it was a reminder to me to stay away from her.

[Asker]

Good point

[Asker]

Why did you contact her

[Opinion Owner]

I had been with her for so many years and we were inseparable. She's always somewhere in my brain.
When I would drink I would forget that she cheated on me.
I would miss her and try to talk to her.
She would treat me like shit.
The next morning I would see the conversation we had and be angry at myself for even messaging her.
I asked her to block me, but she wouldn't so I just deleted my accounts.
I'm much happier now.

[Asker]

Is she still in your brain?

[Opinion Owner]

Always, because we have a child together.
I never got any closure because we had to coparent. I could never get away from her.
Our kid is finally old enough that I can just message him directly, I don't need to see her or discuss anything with her now.
My heart can heal hopefully.

[Asker]

I'm sorry to hear that , sounds like she's a narcissist

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.
I usually don't believe in that label because it seems like everyone has at least one narcissistic trait in their personality, but when I look at the list she honestly has every characteristic that a narcissistic person has. Possibly even bipolar.
It's too bad that I loved her so much, it was challenging.
A lot of pain.
oh well, I need to figure out how to stop loving her now.
I need to get space and focus on someone new.

[Asker]

How long have you been broken up

[Opinion Owner]

Together 15 years and separated for 5 years.
I have had relationships since her, but when they end I start thinking about my ex wife again.
I'm kind of traumatized by how our marriage ended and I'm still in shock about it sometimes.
My life revolved around her and our child.
She was the first woman I ever slept with at 21 and I was obsessed with her.
I just want to scream sometimes because I feel like I'm in a nightmare that won't end.
I miss the life we used to have together.
I'm super loyal and I just need to let go.

[Anonymous]

Lol it's just to get your attention. Maybe chase after him but dont

[Asker]

Ya, he thinks I'm going to text and say hey, what happened , you ok. And then he can get what he wants,

[noohair]

I think Facebook and all other "social media" is abnormal, fake advertising, and bizarre. I try to live in the real world.

[Unpersuadable]

He is smart. We all should. Also, it may have nothing to do with you.

[boggboss]

Because he was fed up with using it

[Asker]

I think he's mad.

[boggboss]

Thats completely possible

[Asker]

And they say women are the emotional ones lol

[boggboss]

Lol humans are emotional

[Asker]

According to him, he is the hard core no emotions Jedi. He is a spoiled man with a temper tantrum because he can't have what he wants 👍🏻

[boggboss]

Yet you decided to get with him meh seems u should just move on with your life

[Asker]

I did not get with him. That's why he's mad. He thought I'd be around forever. He found different. His loss. It's sad. But, it's his loss, literally.

[Asker]

His favorite red shiny truck is gone , and he can't find a replacement good enough , so sad

[boggboss]

Meh 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

Thanks for letting me answer my own question , you get MHO

[I_am_a_smart_human]

Coz he’s mad

[Asker]

Not sure how one can be mad but I get it thanks

[CuriousAZ]

Angry outburst