Why don’t men make the first move? (Page 2)

Question

Why don’t men make the first move?

Anonymous · Answer

Men do. Terrified little boys don't. If a man doesn't make a move on you, it's because he doesn't want to.

Soremain · Answer

Modern men are conditioned to be afraid of rejection.

Drzen · Answer

Because some women use it as a trap to enjoy rejection

rcljr · Answer

We don’t want to be accused of sexual harassment, attempted rape, stalking, etc.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Because we men are tired of the western society always wanting us men to initiate but toxic feminism and woke bs made men back off even more

silkjames · Answer

Who me Lol I only make the first move aslong she is cool with it 🥰😘!

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

They do make the first move. Maybe whoever you're interested in isn't interested in you

SillybrokenPanda · Answer

I've almost always made the first move? I think maybe 3 women have ever made the first move on me

Anonymous · Answer

Because we don't want to be fast-tracked to jail for the rest of our lives or sent to face a firing squad because of the MeToo statutes Very simple really

Waldoe · Answer

they get tired of Rude women being nasty when they say "no", there is no reason to react like a "B" just because a guy shows interest

jasco · Answer

I don't know where you heard this from it's not really true unless he's shy. Most men aren't to a fault. Also most men are the ones doing the asking

EQisKEY · Answer

What the hell are you talking about, if this were the majority then non of us would be here, cause lord knows y'all ain't doin' it, lol

Shy_Steve · Answer

Because there is already about a 60 or 70% chance roughly of us getting rejected, Those aren't good odds at all.

Relux47 · Answer

Despite being shy I do make the first move and do you wanna know where that gets me?

sattii2607 · Answer

Rejection is the biggest fear the society has instilled in men. The importance of failure has not been celebrated as a stepping stone to success but rather as a dimension for chronic failure.

Recurrence · Answer

I’m an anxious person and I don’t have any experience

FraS92 · Answer

Because most don't like it.  Why are them expected to do it in a society that claims to support equality?

noohair · Answer

The male ego is as fragile as an egg, it is worse than getting kicked in the chops.  The male ego does not fix well when broken.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls should make the first move too, me thinks

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Because we are now getting approached by the women for the dates.

scott04sa22 · Answer

We do but there is a thing called fear of rejections.

scooogy · Answer

"Why don't salespeople buy someone's groceries for them?"

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Either they don't know how or they believe that the process is full of hypothetical landmines.

Kashung · Answer

I've never seen or heard of women making a first move... If men didn't make a first move you'll will die single

Alkimus · Answer

For myself, I have to get a really good read from the girl that she wants my advancements, so I don't find myself in a sexual harassment charge.

dorky97 · Answer

Shoot I do but sometimes I don’t cuz some girls make it seem like they don’t want nothing to do with you

Anonymous · Answer

Because women have loudly and repeatedly stated that they just want to be left alone

Deserter · Answer

I'd like to know where you live where it's women asking men out

legalboxers · Answer

we always make the 1st move. its you guys who shoot us down

Papabubbles · Answer

Past rejections and low self esteem are big ones for me

Joshua0213 · Answer

Not worth the effort if I want an actual relationship tbh

Anonymous · Answer

It is either unwanted at best or it's sexual harassment if we aren't good looking at worst.

Zygum · Answer

Men make the first move , those who are confident that they can impress the woman

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I don't because I don't know how... or what to say & I doubt she'd be interested anyway

Anonymous · Answer

Congratulations on your award for dumbest question of the year. Well done!

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Same reason you don't.

Anonymous · Answer

Sorry but that’s wrong I did make the first move when asking a girl out so that’s wrong

loves2learn · Answer

Because they fear rejection.

Anonymous · Answer

Why would they whenever women reject men for the most stupid reasons?

Anonymous · Answer

Possible reasons. 1. He may be shy2. You may be ugly3. You may be a Femi-nazi4. You may be emasculating

AgentRED · Answer

Because apparently every girl has a boyfriend.

JosyJosy · Answer

for the same reasons most of us won't.

serious · Answer

Men do make the first move.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Aren't men usually the ones that do?

SISWITHBROTHER2 · Answer

Every guy I know made the first move.

Surely · Answer

The #MeToo movement sorta put an end to that!

t-8900 · Answer

Lived experience in my case

TheFlak38 · Answer

women call that rape today

Subarugirl · Answer

The ones worth your time do..

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason (s) women don't.

doopayo · Answer

He might be too shy

Anonymous · Answer

Because the man leads the relationship.

Justneedtokno · Answer

I wonder this myself. Maybe there not ready

Guardian45 · Answer

Why do men HAVE to make the first move?

MountAverage · Answer

On what planet do you live?

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Because in some places it's unsafe and not wise.

Wise4myage · Answer

Some guys are just really shy and insecure.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because we have all gone Gay.

m33lad · Answer

Because we’re natural hunters

Kenzy009 · Answer

Beacuse she is not interseted in me

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