A guy was really nice to me in one of my classes. He was really sweet and we exchanged instagrams. When I got home I discovered that his insta was filled with sexual and offensive jokes and things. I was really taken by surprise because he was really nice. We've been texting through insta and at first he would just say "what's up?" I tried to be nice but not too nice if you know what I mean. I left him on open for a day and he told me he "missed me" my parents are photographers, and it came up in a conversation. He commented that my insta posts look really pro and specifically told me my homecoming pics were really good. Then he told me I was beautiful, and when I tried to be like- "Oh thanks!" he was just like- no really, your'e one of the most stunning girls iv'e ever met. Not to mention, I only saw him in one class, and he hasn't been at school since? Claims to be taking online?
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try messaging him a direct no and unfollow him. if that fails, then ghost him and block him.0
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Pretty sure you just tell him thanks but no thanks. Don't have to be rude but better to get it over with and not drag out.30
Just say thanks but no thanks30
Just be polite and don't seek out contact10
You may need to ghost him12
You could just say it?10
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He is a human being every human being has multiple sides of personality
He is nice in real life but he projects a difference side of his personality online coz he thinks it's OK to do so there, now some guys just make comments on girls to get going he might not be serious about what he said and might have said the same thing to other girls around,
How to show disinterest
That's the easy part reply to all his message taking about another guy you are impressed wirh if you don't have one create a imaginary one unless he is really taking interest in you be will dissappear soon