Is there a way to quash out mens egos and pain and fear?

[Anonymous]

Men abuse me verbally because they want to be close to a sweet woman like me but are ignorant (read: unintelligent) and have huge egos. They think I should come crawl to them begging to be in their life in some way. Anyway, I've quashed a few men's roars. Then their soft side becomes apparent. They aren't all hard shell and hard ego.

It does take execution to get the herbit crab to come out its shell.

I realized i have an ego too. This is the inception.

I relate to these men mentally by seeing that I can be unreasonable too in my expectations of how men or people interact with me. I can read into actions inoccrectly and then get mad and build my ego wall stronger. This is bad. But its just me being unintelligent.

Men can do that too.

Ain't nothing smart about mistreating others. So I assume the person doing so is dumb ignorant unintelligent.

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Seems many men misunderstood the question or just read the title and thought i meant harm.

[horatiohornblower]

Nothing's gained by name calling. Just cut ties with men like that.

Frankly, if you don't have it in you to come up with mean and hurtful things to say. Someone who does will always fire back better and with greater intimidation. To get good at it. You'll also have to become as big a dick as they are. At which point you're just another jerk like them.

[Asker]

I meant make them softnot fight fire with fire. But yes i agree if they werent at work i wouldn't even look at them

[Highcountry]

Ignore jackasses, they aren’t worth your time and you deserve better.

[Asker]

I just can't avoid them at work lol... but in real life yeah i wouldn't give them the time of day. Thats probably why they hound girls at work cause she can't escape

[Anonymous]

The most effective thing is to make fun of how small their dick is; even if it is big.

[Asker]

Daang

[Opinion Owner]

Well most men's ego is tied to the idea that their dick is big enough. No quicker way to quash an ego of those guys than that.

[Asker]

I didn't mean fight fire with fire. Just curious did you even read the question fully?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I did.

[Asker]

So you thought what i said was negative towards men?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I just thought you wanted the most effective way of quashing a guy's ego.

[Asker]

Lol he would be more mad and hurt. I meant actually make it disappear so you see his soft side.
I knew about penis size. One guy apparently has a not big penis but a huge ego. I knew that would be going very low if i said anything about it directly. Thats just mean and unnecessary. Its ignorant. What benefits happen from saying that? Maybe im talking about something more subtle and hard to understand.

[Opinion Owner]

But penis size is actually unimportant. So if you quash their ego this way maybe they will grow up. As a means to recove.

[Asker]

Ohhh lol... Bullying to help? I dont think im a fan