He was quiet on Instagram for 4 weeks. After I straight dm him there he’s now suddenly back on updating his story. why?

[Anonymous]

It’s like he was testing if I will reach out to him. When he went quite I messaged him there by replying to his stories.

[snowgirl123]

he wants to see if you like him. have you made him sad? reach out and chat with him. have you made your move? then wait for him to reply. do what you can and let it flow. I think the best thing to do is to chat as much as possible if the feeling is mutual, if not well, be happy we're only at the beginning of our lives.

[Asker]

I did reach out to him and when I did that the next say he updated his story first time in 4 week. What do u think :D?

[Asker]

The next day*

[snowgirl123]

I think that it would be a good idea to wait to see if he will reply to your messages privately, if he wants to chat with you, he will. if not, then you can find someone better. PEACE AND LOVE

[Asker]

He did reply to my message enthustically that evening when I messaged him.

[snowgirl123]

that's really nice, I hope that if he's a nice guy, and if the both of you have the same goals and expectations about each other.

[snowgirl123]

that's really nice, I hope that if he's a nice guy, and if the both of you have the same goals and expectations about each other you may be very happy

[Asker]

What do u think about the fact that he wasn’t active on instgram for 4 weeks. Then after I dm’d him he’s now actively updating?

[snowgirl123]

I think that you made him happy and excited to share his life, thoughts, to do nice things. that's nice.

[Asker]

So does that mean he likes me :D?

[snowgirl123]

maybe =) if he approaches you to chat again often he's interested and something nice can happen between you two

[sensible27]

It might be because he was sad or was lost in something.. and checking on him brought him back? It happened to me when..

[Asker]

Does that show that he likes me :D?

[sensible27]

It might be, kindness is attractive, at least to me.. although it could be he doesn't want a partner

[Asker]

“ although it could be he doesn't want a partner”
What do u mean by that?

[sensible27]

He might like you as a person but doesn't want a partner romantically. I'm not entirely sure what you want me to elaborate on, it might be he isn't interested in someone at all or for example i have friends i like but i don't wanna date them (if that's what you mean) mainly because i don't think I've found my "one" yet.. : ) i think the ultimate standard for me might be kindness, (and even for everyone) if someone is really kind maybe it's really all that matters.. sorry for the rant I didn't know where to stop, good luck : )

[Asker]

Anyway when we talked last time he was enthusiastic in his replies (using exclamation marks and emojis etc) 🤷‍♀️

[spartan55]

You gave us zero details, background, who the guy is... etc. Vcc

[boggboss]

Because he knows u still check up on him?

[Asker]

Haha so my suspicion was right? 😂😂

[boggboss]

Possibly yeah

[Asker]

Lol :D

[boggboss]

👍🏽

[Asker]

when we talked last time he was enthusiastic in his replies (using exclamation marks and emojis etc) 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

I hope he’s not leading me on lol. I don't know why would he bother to be so enthusiastic when we text….

[boggboss]

Because he likes talking to you at this point u are leading yourself on

[Asker]

What do u mean I’m leading myself on? :D

[boggboss]

U won't ask him what's going on or if he likes u or that u like him because u want him to do it first u are leading yourself on because u could get the answer now but choose not too

[Asker]

Haha by the way do u think its coincidence that after I dm him he’s updating his story more actively? Like after 4 weeks being quite he’s updating his story 2 days consecutively :D