Girlfriend joining sorority should I try to make it work or will it hurt me?

[Bababooye]

My girlfriend is joining a sorority and honestly I’m terrified of two things a. The lack of time and b. Friends and even the people running it along with alch will poorly influence our rela. I’m not in a frat so no party I’d be able to go to and I’m scared that she will be spending more time with these parties and frat dudes than me and it hurts cause I love her and trust her it’s more me mentally that I’m worried about. Thinking about it lately I’ve been unable to sleep and it’s hard cause she brings up parties cause she’s never really experienced one. Just want honest answer can we handle it will I have time to be with her a lot or will it be mostly sorority. Ik that I influence only our rela she shouldn’t have to change what she wants to do for fun so I just don’t know what to do anymore. I want to stay with her we’ve been together for a year but I’m worried about how or even if I should for me mentally

[boomstheory]

Leave. Fraternities and sororities are colts a lot of people become demonically possessed or have very bad spirits for the rest of their life they don't even know what they're getting themself into but it's all occultic stuff

[Bababooye]

Goddamn lol

[spartan55]

Hey dude, I dated a girl in a sorority for about a year in a college. Pm me.

[Bababooye]

Not level two just got on app

[Bababooye]

So I can’t pm

[SnakeBoop]

Meh. I feel its a bit premature to just leave because she's joining one. See how it goes perhaps, bring up the concerns to your girlfriend

[Anonymous]

My ex invited me to her HeForShe or somthing kind of les club. I had to listen to ten girls' goddamn bs for 30 min every week. I broke up with her 2 weeks later.

[Iron_Man]

You can still try

[Bababooye]

U think I should tho I’m just terrified of having that hurt and almost don’t know what’s worse leaving while loving her or staying and hurt her emotionally cause I can’t handle it and her guilt

[Iron_Man]

Are you already together

[Bababooye]

Yah 1 year

[Bababooye]

The problem is the lack of sleep for like a week and everything online is just like don’t it’s hard I don't know what to think so I wanted to talk to people

[Iron_Man]

If you let her go you’ll probably regret it

[Bababooye]

Yah ik man just hard to know where the line is like when is it no longer making me better and starts to hurt me cause I need to at least have some way to know before I end up that dude dragged around yk

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t touch something that’s not broken

[Iron_Man]

Just because she’s joining a sorority doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you

[Bababooye]

No def not worried she wouldn’t it’s more the time for me we just started this year long distance so next year if we don’t have time for each other Ik I can’t do it but u think she’ll have the time for me?

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry but I don’t know her at all

[Bababooye]

I meant the generalized sorority girl how much free time they working with

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t worry about it your long distance anyway