Does a 40 year old male coworker turned supervisor get aroused by being mean to me?

[Anonymous]

Ok so he's done this thing before where he would be playfully mad at me or forceful. he's hot as hell to me so it just turned me on. Lmao!!!

But now that he's a leader kinda, he even sorta yells at me at times which he never did. Its kinda weird but for some reason im not actually phased by it? Other than the fact that i wonder why he does this to me.. m i almost guarantee he does not do that to ANYONE else.
It is pretty much abusive by the way. But im just wondering wtf is he doing it for?

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+1 y

he's 39 oops

[Anonymous]

I would say necessary "aroused", but some people get a thrill over having power over people and making sure everybody knows they have such "power".

For the looks of it, you like being in that sort of relationship dynamic. Maybe try challenging him or teasing him a little and see how he reacts. If he follows your game, he may be into it in the same way your are.

[Opinion Owner]

*I wouldn't say necessary "aroused".

I don't know how to edit

[Asker]

Haha thanks i could try to challenge him lol see what he does... xD

[Opinion Owner]

Go for it 😁 I hope to see an update in a couple of weeks

[TommyMountainFigure]

Without knowing him personally and yes I think it strange, perhaps he enjoys having power over you, and maybe you're right as I'm sitting here thinking more about it, maybe it does something sexual for him.

[ikEVERYTHING]

Probably. I recommend segregating yourself or finding a new company with preferably just women or mainly women if you HAVE to work. Avoid this issues and perhaps something worse you don't see coming, even if you like it.

[Yellovv]

That is happen a lot in work...

[Asker]

Is hs aroused?

[Yellovv]

Maybe!! İf you are hot enough why not?

[Asker]

Oh so yelling at me makes him aroused?

[Yellovv]

I don't think so, but you seem aroused about it..

[Asker]

Not by the yelling. The yelling just seems out of place tbh. Im a nice person. Its not like he has to yell at me of all people to get things done LMAO. Yelling just sticks out like a sore thumb to me.

[Yellovv]

Why is he yelling to you than?

[Asker]

About some mistake i made. I don't know. Maybe he just has some aggressive feelings towards me. Cause i am nice so I don't know what his issue is

[Yellovv]

Can we talk privately about it?

[Anonymous]

Check his crotch the next time he acts like that.

[Anonymous]

39 or 40 it does not make much difference !

[Asker]

Lol. Wow