It seems that for this guy, sex is not the priority in his life and that he is most comfortable being just with you and without being intimate.
That is perfectly fine and you should accept his friendship as is. Sex is overrated and the catalyst for so many problems as you realize it. Some people want it and some don't need it that often.
You seem to call him a friend with benefits but to him, you are just a friend without too many physical benefits.
He seems to be jealous that you may be intimate with other guys which leads me to believe that he does care for you beyond what a friend with benefits does. Perhaps he has caught feelings for you and is unsure how to express it.
You need to have a serious conversation and clear things up before it is too late and that you leave him because you expect too much or that he leaves you because you want too much.
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Try to put yourself in his shoe.
He could be:
1) the type of guy that fears commitment.
2) the type that fears rejection (hence accepts friends with benefits instead of a relationship)
3) a player, pretend and play hard to get to get into your pants (possible but in my opinion, not likely)
What you can do:
A) allow a few more months to pass, then have a formal discussion to make the current friends with benefits into a romantic relationship.
B) be cautious and not get too attached to avoid a bad heartbreak.
C) have more dates without alcoholic drinks.
D) drop hints that you want a relationship.
Seems like he is afraid of sex
I would want sex every day no matter what time of the month it is.
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That guy is not your friends with benefits... he wants to have a relationship with you.
Yeah, that's going to end well...
That's called a friend without benefits... did you notice him not being satisfied during sex with you?
Sounds like friends, not friends with benefits
Ask him why
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