"a talk not to fall in love" - you can't control feelings if they start to develop, no matter how much mentally you try to "control" it. Just keep that in mind. I learned this the hard way.
Only he can answer this. Maybe he just wanted to sleep with you, and now that he has, he's done? Some guys are like that. If that was his only interest in you? But who knows what's going on in his life also. Maybe something's happened and it has nothing to do with you at all? I'd just confront him on it. Approach or text, ask him if everything's ok?
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He sees you as an object to fulfill his desire. What did you expect going into friends with benefits? Take my advice with a grain of salt; you're not cut out for friends with benefits unless you can become unattached from your emotions (in my opinion HUGE MISTAKE), best to cut him loose & find a man that's a better fit.
Well, that's what friends with benefits usually do. They only get in touch when they need you for sex purposes and then carry on with their lives until they feel the need to contact you again otherwise that would be called a relationship instead.
He’s not into you that way and he doesn’t want you to fall for him (which from the fact that you asked this question it sounds like you are)
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He is using you for sex... He don't give a fuck about you or anything that you do. He just wants sex.
Friends with benefits the dumbest shit I ever heard in my... well no it's not the dumbest plenty of things dumberSo ether
A.) He broke his promise and caught feelings for you.
B.) He's actually just being a dick
There is also room for a few other possibilities like if you were flirting with someone else and he was jealous etc.Because all he wants is sex. A lot of people don’t understand that friends with benefits isn’t a relationship where there are responsibilities and compromises. It’s all about casual sex.
That's what an friends with benefits is... You're a warm sex toy for each other. That kind of thing is exactly why I don't participate in hookup culture.
A little surprised that he totally ignores you after sex, but not completely. would think he would keep messages open to keep the friends part in place.
if he didn't ignore you after the benifits then you would be dating. ha ha ha ha. is this a serious question?
Why are you 33, and still having a "friends with benefits"
And girls call us immaturefriends with benefits is so much fun isn't it?
Because sex is all he's after.
Because he is using you for sex.
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