He follows celebs/influences that look nothing like me. Does that mean I’m not his type?

[Priv9696]

I’m seeing this guy who always calls me gorgeous and hot and says he wants to get to know me more etc

things are going great but I recently followed him on Instagram today and he’s following women like this…

As you can see they are different skin colour to me and hair colour and he doesn’t follow any black female celebs so is he even attracted to me like he claims?

[Craftsman]

He's with you, and that speaks a lot.
He may be following people for any of a number of reasons, none of which most likely have anything to do with your relationship with him.
The real bottom line is, he is with you. Trust that. He probably sees more than skin, hair and eye color in his attraction to you.
Questioning his attraction to you will only harm what you two have going in the long run.

[SilverFoxDebutante]

Honestly, who cares who he follows on social media. They’re not real. He’ll never have a relationship with him. The bigger question is, is he your type? What do you want in a relationship? How are you showing up in a relationship to get what you want and to be the best partner that you can be?


Get to know who you really are and the value that you bring and you’ll never asked the question again.

[Aurora1010]

Just cause he follows girls with that look doesn't mean they're his type, I know from experience. Maybe he does but it's not a guarantee

[Aurora1010]

Or it doesn't mean he has a type or a preference for them I meant

[Aurora1010]

Oh, and I know cause my ex used to follow lots of girls with a certain body type too but his preference was something else

[20yearsolder]

What it means is he's a normal man, all of us check out other females. Has nothing to do with you or not, don't worry about where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home.

[Priv9696]

But he’s not following a single black celebrity

[20yearsolder]

But he's with you, why wouldn't he just dump you and go for a white girl if you wasn't actually interested in you

[Anonymous]

Since you are at initial stage you have give to give him benefit of doubt and take things slowly with him so that you dont feel hurt at later stage and after some time when you both feel super comfortable with each other then you can ask about him following these influencers

[Priv9696]

How would I word it?

[bowenw]

A lot of guys like to look at a variety of pretty girls. It doesn't mean they don't love their SO or think less of her.

[Neilbud]

Social media has become a huge marketing platform. Some girls try to capitalize on that and guys will follow them just to be supportive. I don't think it's worth jumping to conclusions too soon.

[JustinTheGreat]

If he says he’s attracted to you, then he’s attracted to you. I don’t see why he would lie.

[whosnumber1]

I'm a white guy, I'll date any female that walks if she checks off all the boxes regardless of her skin colour.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That don't mean anything but just so you know they still have you body type their just white versions of you

[driven159]

it is not what someone says it's how they act if he acts like he likes you than he does

[Andro36]

oh no. you look like a super model so definitely he has a prototype!

[Zlantur2]

I don't think so. I like both of them but I also find you gorgeous.

[DryGermanGuy]

It’s called „branching out“! 🤔😬🤡

[IncognitoBandito]

Maybe he just likes a variety of women

[EaterPeter]

Impossible

[Anonymous]

no..