When you remove the gender restriction on rape laws- then just like every other form violence, the majority of victims are male. That's the uncomfortable truth. Even with this uncomfortable truth, I'm not going to constantly bash men because the men who are responsible, are not the majority of men. And when women are victims (I hate that happens) they have a much better support system. Now I'm done and you can get the last word in this time.
@Subarugirl The FBI Defines forcible rape as “The carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” In addition, “By definition, sexual attacks on males are excluded from the rape category and must be classified as assaults or other sex offenses depending on the nature of the crime and the extent of injury.
Women have the right to call unwanted, coerced sex rape The original FBI definition of rape specifically identified women as the victims, excluding the possibility of male rape victims. When the FBI updated that, it did so in way that includes a small minority of male rape victims but excluded most male rape victims by retaining the “penetration” clause. Penetration of any orifice must occur for rape to have happened. The FBI does collect another set of statistics though, under the category of “other sexual assault” – it’s the awkwardly named “made to penetrate” category, which includes men who were coerced, tricked or bullied into penetrative sex with women they would otherwise not have had sex with. The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey similarly considers the two types of assault separately, despite the fact that occurrences are virtually identical. 1.27M women report rape (p.18) and 1.26M men report “made to penetrate” (p.19). By collecting the information under separate categories, following the legal definitions, women have the right to have their rapes called “rape”. Men do not.
Meaning made to penetrate is not counted as rape. Please before you spout feminist bullshit, do some actual reading on the laws..
@Subarugirl. If you only mean some men, why don't you say "some men"? It seems like less of a question than it is a chance to put down men using a question mark as a disguise.
As an experiment I did this Why do women fell so entitled? ↗ When I asked why women didn't get that it wasn't all women i was told " Because that's not the way you wrote it." I was also told that the post was vague and that abuse and entitlement are different things. I stand by my response to that. This was about a different post but applies the same I think " Yes. You are right. I'm only calling a woman entitled and phrasing it in a way that can be interpreted to mean all women. She is accusing men of being abusive, she included rape in there too by the way, and using the same phrasing. It seems like mine is less hateful unless you think that it's worse to be accused of entitlement than to be accused of abuse and rape."
No one is saying that woman can’t be taller or stronger than a man, but generally, men are, and men don’t seem to take issues with it. How ever they seem to take issue when you make a generalizations about violence and sexual violence. Are all men predators or mass shooters? No, of course not but statistically males are far more likely to be those things, as opposed to women.
Since 1982, an astonishing 121 mass shootings have been carried out in the United States by male shooters. In contrast, only three mass shootings (defined by the source as a single attack in a public place in which four or more victims were killed) have been carried out by women.
Actually I talk about the different forms of oppression that men and women face it todays culture. I’m not being sexist, I am talking about sexism, there is a difference
Actually, I’ve talked about why suicide rates among men are 2x that of women, why men are less likely to seek mental and medical assistance, and the negative impact that toxic masculinity society especially for those who have been raped and sexually assaulted.
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I think you meant to say the opposite since women are the ones notorious for using nawalt
”Not all women are like that”
As men we know that some men are scum and women blanket us all into one bucket, we just don’t care.
Some men do this and another user did a good job at explaining why. When men are demonized their entire life, some of them are going to believe it.
Responding to your "men don't care until..." assuming the worst about men is done subconsciously. That's how normalized hating men is.
If sexual assault and rape statistics were flipped, I’m sure you would feel differently
I'm not entertaining your feminist nonsense. It would be pointless anyway. You asked for an honest answer and that's what I gave you. Have a nice day.
Well I am not a feminist and your opinion doesn’t automatically mean fact. But sure, go ahead and avoid the uncomfortable topics.
When you remove the gender restriction on rape laws- then just like every other form violence, the majority of victims are male. That's the uncomfortable truth. Even with this uncomfortable truth, I'm not going to constantly bash men because the men who are responsible, are not the majority of men. And when women are victims (I hate that happens) they have a much better support system. Now I'm done and you can get the last word in this time.
There are no gender restrictions when it comes to rape legislation... if you can show me some Id love to see it.
@Subarugirl The FBI Defines forcible rape as “The carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” In addition, “By definition, sexual attacks on males are excluded from the rape category and must be classified as assaults or other sex offenses depending on the nature of the crime and the extent of injury.
And most state laws follow that definition...
Women have the right to call unwanted, coerced sex rape
The original FBI definition of rape specifically identified women as the victims, excluding the possibility of male rape victims. When the FBI updated that, it did so in way that includes a small minority of male rape victims but excluded most male rape victims by retaining the “penetration” clause. Penetration of any orifice must occur for rape to have happened. The FBI does collect another set of statistics though, under the category of “other sexual assault” – it’s the awkwardly named “made to penetrate” category, which includes men who were coerced, tricked or bullied into penetrative sex with women they would otherwise not have had sex with. The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey similarly considers the two types of assault separately, despite the fact that occurrences are virtually identical. 1.27M women report rape (p.18) and 1.26M men report “made to penetrate” (p.19). By collecting the information under separate categories, following the legal definitions, women have the right to have their rapes called “rape”. Men do not.
Meaning made to penetrate is not counted as rape. Please before you spout feminist bullshit, do some actual reading on the laws..
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ucr.fbi.gov/.../new-rape-definition-frequently-asked-questions
Worlscolide thank you because I don't know how to send links 😂
Welcome. I tend to prefer to stamp out feminist bullshit where i see it.
1. Because its a daughter. You underestimate a mans love for his daughter.
2. No. That only applies to those you dont know that well.
3. We rarely talk about women. At least in my group.
Specificity is the soul of good communication.
If someone says “I hate you” that’s different than “I hate your shoes”
@Subarugirl. If you only mean some men, why don't you say "some men"? It seems like less of a question than it is a chance to put down men using a question mark as a disguise.
As an experiment I did this
Why do women fell so entitled? ↗
When I asked why women didn't get that it wasn't all women i was told " Because that's not the way you wrote it."
I was also told that the post was vague and that abuse and entitlement are different things. I stand by my response to that.
This was about a different post but applies the same I think
" Yes. You are right. I'm only calling a woman entitled and phrasing it in a way that can be interpreted to mean all women.
She is accusing men of being abusive, she included rape in there too by the way, and using the same phrasing.
It seems like mine is less hateful unless you think that it's worse to be accused of entitlement than to be accused of abuse and rape."
the word "problem" implies there is a solution. there isn't. this is the fundamental truth of men. and you just have to accept it
I refuse to believe them men are animals who cannot control their impulses
oh they CAN control their impulses. but they're never gone,
we are all animals, so are you.
I have had women talk about me after I have left rooms 🤷♂️Guess how much it bothered me?
Sounds like you're stereotyping, and trying to generalize the male population
Saying that men are stronger and taller than women is a generalization too, but no one takes issue with that.
Of course they do. Female bodybuilders and wrestlers would have something to say about that
Do you have an example of that?
I mean just look at chyna. She won the IC title. A MANS title
No one is saying that woman can’t be taller or stronger than a man, but generally, men are, and men don’t seem to take issues with it. How ever they seem to take issue when you make a generalizations about violence and sexual violence. Are all men predators or mass shooters? No, of course not but statistically males are far more likely to be those things, as opposed to women.
Actually, they're not
Since 1982, an astonishing 121 mass shootings have been carried out in the United States by male shooters. In contrast, only three mass shootings (defined by the source as a single attack in a public place in which four or more victims were killed) have been carried out by women.
www.statista.com/.../
Sorry, you were saying?
Nope. You're actually VERY wrong
Not according to the evidence.. unless you have evidence to the contrary
In which case I would like to see it so that I can be better informed
Uhh i never do anything like that. Wtf? Best guess is asker is on drugs at time of posting is my best explanation.
Or you could talk about the men in your life who are mistreating you, instead of trying to put it on strangers who have done nothing.
I haven't heard of those except for the teen part. And that's because young men are horny as hell.
because that is natural male behavior and we understand and enjoy and support this.
You can shut the fuck up and take up your sexism somewhere else, thanks.
Well, if she's an exhibitionist, she's welcome to do that somewhere else
Who said that I do that? Even if it were the case that I am taken.
yep, I am the absolute worst...
The only one saying that is you
that's right... and facetiously as well
which, is a good thing
I don't have a clue what you're asking!
Or you can choose better friends.
Huh?
You cleary hang out with retards
Because you say exactly that
Well it’s important to talk about things that happen so that people are aware
Ha easy for u to say when all u talk about is men this men that
What about the women?
A few things I’ve recently learned about women’s rights that I think everyone should know ↗
Ofc u have the right it’s called freedom of speech
But men have it too so I don't know why u have a problem always
Actually I talk about the different forms of oppression that men and women face it todays culture. I’m not being sexist, I am talking about sexism, there is a difference
Yeah… you are talking about males who paint their nails or whatever
That’s not all men just a small minority of men
Actually, I’ve talked about why suicide rates among men are 2x that of women, why men are less likely to seek mental and medical assistance, and the negative impact that toxic masculinity society especially for those who have been raped and sexually assaulted.
I don't think it's talk they're worried about...