Ok I feel like I'm getting so many mixed signals.
I've written before about my close guy friend, who I have developed feelings for, but for the time being let's forget about that detail and focus on the friend part.
When we first became friends, we weren't that close. Yeah we talked everyday, but it's only been in the last like six months that we've crossed from friends to close friends. Well at least I think so.
Sometimes I feel like he considers me a close friend, but then other times I feel like just one of his extra friends.
I mean we hang out once a week and not just short little catch ups, no no. We hang out for a good 2-3 hours at least. Just talking about anything and everything. Just a few days ago we went to a lake, parked at a boat drop off, sat on the hood of his car and talked for almost 2 hours. Not really something you do with someone who is just an extra friend... right?
But then when we aren't hanging out, it's like crickets. I hardly hear from him. And I know it's stalkerish, but when I snap him he won't even open my snap, but I can see his snap score is rising. Like what the heck dude?
Being busy and not responding to my snap okay that makes sense. But to ignore me in favor of snapping other people? That takes effort. I just don't get it.
I mean if this was the only time we spoke to each other, I'd agree that I wasn't important to him. That clearly things are imbalanced. But the fact that we have some serious hangout sessions each week and the fact that he's told me without promoting that he cares a lot about me... just pure confusion.
Please if anyone has any insight into this situation please let me know.
I've written before about my close guy friend, who I have developed feelings for, but for the time being let's forget about that detail and focus on the friend part.
When we first became friends, we weren't that close. Yeah we talked everyday, but it's only been in the last like six months that we've crossed from friends to close friends. Well at least I think so.
Sometimes I feel like he considers me a close friend, but then other times I feel like just one of his extra friends.
I mean we hang out once a week and not just short little catch ups, no no. We hang out for a good 2-3 hours at least. Just talking about anything and everything. Just a few days ago we went to a lake, parked at a boat drop off, sat on the hood of his car and talked for almost 2 hours. Not really something you do with someone who is just an extra friend... right?
But then when we aren't hanging out, it's like crickets. I hardly hear from him. And I know it's stalkerish, but when I snap him he won't even open my snap, but I can see his snap score is rising. Like what the heck dude?
Being busy and not responding to my snap okay that makes sense. But to ignore me in favor of snapping other people? That takes effort. I just don't get it.
I mean if this was the only time we spoke to each other, I'd agree that I wasn't important to him. That clearly things are imbalanced. But the fact that we have some serious hangout sessions each week and the fact that he's told me without promoting that he cares a lot about me... just pure confusion.
Please if anyone has any insight into this situation please let me know.
