I’m still tripping over my boyfriend looking up an Instagram hoe?

[Cass510]

My boyfriend and I been together for three years. He’s an honest and overall decent guy and I love him so. Couple months ago I saw that he searched up an insta hoe because she had a bunch of followers and one his friends followed her. Anyways I was hurt by it because she had a big butt and it just hurt in why he would be looking her up, I confronted him about it and he was honest about it said I wasn’t disrespectful about it I didn’t follow her or anything I said it hurt my feelings and that was that. I’m not naive and I know he looks up a ton of girls but I can’t help but feel like eh does he not like me or find me attractive as he does her? I’m asking guys to help me out here

[Anonymous]

Of course he likes you baby girl. You have to try not to get so wound up in all of this. I’ve been w my girl for a long time, almost as long as you’ve been alive. And although we’ve been together that long I still look at other women who I find sexually attractive. I’m not trying to justify that. I mean honestly I wish at times that didn’t happen because it would make things much easier. I’m not saying that her and I fight about it. It would make things easier as far as temptations. It has nothing to do w me loving her or still finding her attractive because I still do. It’s just a physical thing as far as the looks. Keep in mind that the biggest thing that separates her from all these other women is she stimulates me mentally on other levels than just sex. Her personality is what makes her great because to me she’s more than just something sexual whereas these other women are purely based on looks.

[20yearsolder]

Get over it, men like to look at women. I don't give a shit whether we're in a relationship or not. At the end of the day he's with you. The women that he is looking at he has no chance with. You need to work on your self-confidence. That's what we'll push a man away is childish shit like you just pulled. Be a grown ass woman

[SweedyPie]

You need to work on your self confidence. You can't allow yourself to get worked up about him simply watching other people. He has eyes as do you. He's a man. He's with you isn't he? If he's reaching out to people or advertising himself as an available man that's different but please don't let yourself get all torn up just cuz he's looking at people. Damn. That's rough. I feel a little bad for him tbh. Painted guilty while being innocent.

[Anonymous]

Isn't that what the site is all about? I never understand why this shocks people.

[one1wild00]

Think if you pick out a pet, you've decided on the one you want but you are looking at all the other nice would be pets. or do you glance around at other guys saying to yourself nice, wonder what he is lie, but it's a fleeting thought nothing that you are going to act on. He may look and admire, but he is with you, remember that.

[Cass510]

Thank you, I know it’s an overreaction but I can’t help it you know

[one1wild00]

Heep your chin up and smile inwardly and outwardly and appreciate what you have.

[boggboss]

Clearly need to work on your self image if him looking up someone om insta can cause a issue like this fundamentally he wouldn't be with u if he didn't like u

[Agape93]

So he looked her up, didn't follow her, didn't like her pics, didn't sext or flirt with her, just looked at her page. Seriously, get over it.

[AvaOneLasTime]

You make a big deal out of that... You simply further hurt yourself that way

[Anonymous]

OMG my boyfriend looked at another woman’s ass on-line!

🙄

Fucking women man. Grow up and stop monitoring your boyfriend’s social media. Do you also read his mail?

[KrakenAttackin]

How many "guy friends" do you have on Snap and Facebook? Just stop.

[Anonymous]

Have you never looked at a movie star and thought he looked good?

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who hit on you

[DownIndaDumpz2]

i love him too

[In_Trance]

Toxic femininity