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Why are guys attracted to the "hard to get"? (Page 2)
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I'm not, I can't tell the difference between hard to get, and not interested, so to be safe, I assume she's not interested unless she's hitting on me bluntly.
I have zero interest in chasing or guessing what she thinks.
My wife didn’t like me at first and it listed me off because, you know… I’m me! I thought she was very pretty and had an amazing body so I went after her. It worked out. (She said I was arrogant when I first met her).
Not listed… pissed. Lol
so you chase her?
@Biya21 Yes. And I married her. After many years she is here right next to me. We have had a great life thus far.
congrats...
you were madly in love with her?
@Biya21 When I first met her? No. I was infatuated and was determined.
In my experience only women seem to think like this and guys do the opposite. If she actually plays hard to get it's a red flag and sign of a cheater. If a women is naturally attractive to some men then she only becomes hard to get because they want her whether she wants them or not. "Hard to get" is a barrier we prefer to not have but if she's so desirable she will still be wanted regardless of her attitude
Its moreso that people place a higher value on things that were harder to obtain
Not me I honestly consider that way to much work for no rewards, I definitely not interested in the hard to get kinda girls.
I’m not that way, I lose interest if I need to work that hard to even get a date.
Guys are attracted to hot women
Hot women are in INCREDIBLY high demand
Therefore, by definition they are "hard to get"
Hence guys are attracted to the "hard to get." Not for its own sake but because of something else.
So guys your not interested in are chasing you and alpha guys with options that you are interested in are not interested in you.
Whats the question again?
I am not attracted to "herd to getters". I'm not doing them a favour. It gonna be a mutual relationship wherein both enjoy. Why do I have to "kiss ass" for both?
Because the beautiful are hard to get and men are attracted to beautiful girl. . Ugly girls are easy to get.
males (of all species) are "hunters" we love the Game... We enjoy a challenge... or we don't feel that we have gained anything of value...
Hunter/prey dynamics hun the thrill of a good chase the better the take down the better the exhaustion of the exertion of... Well you get the point
not me, I don't play games, life's too short.
You either want to be with me or you don't.
Please don't waste my time because I might ss the one that really wants me.
Sometimes guys like the idea of dating a girl rather than actually dating a girl.
I think that it is because of the challenge. Just my humble opinion mainly because I like to date younger women
It's part of the hunt effect. It feels more an achievement when you have to put in some effort to reach a goal as opposed to just having it handed to you
No. That shows no interest. I'd would just have moved on.
im not, i hate them, i like easy sluts, u play 1 second of hard to get i give up, ain't got time zzz, jus get naked bang bang
ain't got all day come on
What? It's the opposite. Women want hard to get. Men don't want hard to get. We just don't want sluts. That's not the same thing.
Because "no" means "yes" and "yes" means "I do anal".