I have a fear of men specifically strong ones?

[Anonymous]

Ever since I was little, my mom would tell me to cover up since my uncles were in the house. And it would confuse me to why i’d have to do that in my own home. And the possibilities of traumatizing things that would happen with people i love. Then I hear all these stories about abusive partners and how they were all “sweet” at the start and things changed. So it kinda made me a little scared but now the way certain guys joke about stuff (teenage guys), it’s genuinely scary. They talk about doing sexual stuff with younger family members, kidnapping, and etc as a joke? Now i’m sorta afraid of getting involved with a guy and bad things will happen

[TallAnon]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's understandable. I myself am 6'7, super heavy weight and I practiced martial arts for many years as well. It is totally logical to be afraid. However, I also want to point out that I much rather eat vanilla ice cream than talk to others. I much rather take a hot shower than pick a fight. Especially for the really strong people, there is nothing to gain from hurting you. We don't need an ego, we know we are strong. It's much more in our interest to help you out and be careful of you, mainly because we do have that image of being scary. Having people being scared of you all the time makes for lonely times. We much rather receive a smile than trouble.
Hope that helps, feel free to message me if you want.

[crossdressingrihno]

That doesn't sound like the average thing normal men do even young men this sounds like you are talking to not normal people who are not good people who you should certainly avoid these are not normal people these seem to be very bad people though so stay away from them when possible you probably let your parents know about these people "joking"

[Anonymous]

It's reasonable to be cautious of people you don't know, men or not. My sisters and I would hang out in underwear because we're comfortable but outside I wouldn't trust someone with my phone or pockets. Always have people you can trust of both genders so they can back you up and help keep away criminals. Not sure where you are but joking about that kinda stuff seems sorta weird tbh

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You also need to consider looking at the other side of men. You're just being one sided. You may tend to ignore how many guys are actually genuinely good who even get abused by their wives which a lot of them are.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, stay away from them bad guys in school (( Hugs )) Sorry this stuff happen to you

[Anonymous]