You'll be sad for a while, but the motorcycle drive will help you forget! lol Actually being serious as well as joking. I'm amazed at how some feel this way about motorcycles, because it's not really them that's dangerous as much as it is the PERSON that drives it and HOW they drive it. If you drive it responsibly and sensibly and don't do stupid things (like a lot do, example weaving in and out of traffic at a million miles and hour!). I know it'll be hard for you, and it's easy for me to say not being in that situation, but I'd say "I'm sorry you feel that way, and if you're determined to end our relationship over this, then it's been fun, good-bye!" It's one thing for a person to share their feelings about it, and you can try to relieve them as best you can, but he's not even being that reasonable, just giving you an ultimatum, which isn't fair at all. It would actually make me pretty angry as they just want to control you. It's too bad he feels that way, bye bye! That's my view lol
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You're not jeopardizing your relationship; he is.
I mean, he's not wrong about the dangers of riding, but it's not his decision to make, and giving you an ultimatum about it is deplorable on his part. It's your life and your money. Do with it what makes you happy. I say go for it.
It's interesting to see a woman in your position. I would guess this exact same scenario has played out many thousands of times, but it is rare that the woman is the one wanting the bike and the man is battling against it.
Tell your boyfriend to fuck off. Have fun but be safe.
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I've had bikes before I had my driver's license.
Yes they can be more dangerous that say driving a dump truck.
Most motorcycle accidents are single bike accidents.
I am a careful rider, watch out for others and so far so good.
If it is your passion then do it, otherwise the resentment will continue to build.Motorcycles are so ridiculously dangerous, and the biggest danger isn't the rider (although there are plenty of idiots driving bikes) it's the way all other vehicles regard them. Motorcycles might as well be pedestrians amongst regular traffic. Lost a buddy to a motorcycle accident, been in one myself.
Security trust honoring the emotions of the relationship and sacrificeā¦ counterbalances to selfishness.
Whatās the root of his fearā¦ being aloneā¦ did he lose someone in his life like that? You have to honor the other person.
Iād suggest get a dirt bike and ride smart and safe. Very low chance getting hurt vs road.
Why you want a bike that bad? Because you did that w your father?He doesn't want it becauae he's a mooch and doesn't want his meal ticket at risk
Dump him and buy the bike, enjoy yourselfHe has a point however motorcycle accidents are not that common. Let him know that car wrecks can kill too. If it were me I would buy it with my own money as long as it didn't take away from the household income. He is looking for work but for now you are the sole provider for the household. He may also see the motorcycle as a one person vehicle and you going out alone? or at least being without him? He can't share that time with you sort of thing?
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That is absolutely ridiculous we have to live free and enjoy life he sounds like a woman that's what women do just wear a helmet at all times and have real good padding. Anyway I like all that stuff and I'm going to be getting a dirt bike very soon myself so enjoy and make your decision very wisely and sleep on it
You're the bread winner. Get the motorcycle. If he doesn't like it, he can get the fuck out.
Go ahead and get a motorcycle, if he leaves you good riddance.
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