Why does he pick trashy girls over me?

[Brittanyroseee]

This is about my guy best friend, you can look at my previous questions about him to get a full summary basically. He tends to rather go out drinking at the bars with his “friends” who are losers and mess around with trashy girls. He always puts me last. Im the definition of a good girl but he chooses ratchet girls over me. Im always there for him and i know for a fact, those women will never hold him down like I do.

[Anonymous]

Because your best friends, so to him it's like dating a guy. If he was attracted to you then you're obviously not a best friend. Some guys might like good girls some guys might like trashy girls. From our experience girls also seem to only pick trashy boys over good but we just get over it because it's not big deal

Not sure why you would like a guy who likes trashy girls and doesn't like you, those 2 traits should make you find him unattractive. Go after someone who's your type instead of who's not your type. if you focus too much on 1 guy then you can miss chance with another guy who could be miles better

[Brittanyroseee]

He is my type

[Brittanyroseee]

He is hot

[DavidRaul]

Just be patient. You could make him realise that you could take care of him better than any other girl he hangs around. We accept the love we deserve. We don't think beyond that. Thats the same with your bestfriend

[Brittanyroseee]

I want him to realize this. I love him so much its insane

[Brittanyroseee]

I took care for him for 3 years

[DavidRaul]

Just express your love for him. He needs to know about your feelings. Lets see if he loves you the same

[Brittanyroseee]

He knows😔

[DavidRaul]

Then you couldn't have done anything better. Just don't loose hope

[Brittanyroseee]

Maybe if i just go silent for a little he will realize and change his mind

[DavidRaul]

Yes you could do that. Just ghost him for a while

[Brittanyroseee]

Yes i will. Im thinking of going ghost. Not necessarily cutting him off or blocking him. I don’t want to do that. I will just stop reaching out and won’t respond if he hits me up until he starts to realize what he had

[DavidRaul]

Exactly, thats what i was saying. He needs to realise the comfort he had

[Brittanyroseee]

I agree, im always in his corner. I know he lowkey relies on me a lot and i know nobody else will do the things i do for him

[DavidRaul]

Well its really lovely to have someone around you. He's dumb to act on it. Hopefully he will realise what he is missing

[DavidRaul]

*like

[Brittanyroseee]

Me too thank you for your help!

[DavidRaul]

No worries. Your welcome

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

If he has a different taste in women then you just move on. You can’t decide how someone feels unless it’s genuinely their own idea. After certain amount of time you just have to call it and cut your losses. If the pain is too much to be close then apply distance and place your attention towards someone who is going to take you seriously.

[TheAnon1]

Some people need a period in their life where they just date around to explore their physical urges. I call it a “hoe phase”. Some people get through it quicker than others. Some people don’t ever get through it. Some people don’t feel they need it.

The fact that you classify the people he goes out with as “trash” makes you come off as judgmental and arrogant. Obviously they’re not trashy to him, or he just doesn’t care. How do you know he doesn’t feel like you’re trashy?

[Brittanyroseee]

I know they are trashy because i know them and i know who he hangs with. They do drugs😂

[Brittanyroseee]

The girls look coked tf out

[spartan55]

Why do you have to 'hold down' a 'guy best friend'?

[Brittanyroseee]

Do you even know what it means?

[spartan55]

Uh... yeah. so he has known you like him for three years and hasn't done anything about it?

[Brittanyroseee]

Look back at my other questions thanks

[spartan55]

Nice attitude.

[spartan55]

Wow, he sounds like a great guy...🙄

[Brittanyroseee]

Your welcome😘

[spartan55]

Yeah okay, have fun with prince charming the felon.

[Brittanyroseee]

I will😊 i know how he is, i know his red flags. I can’t help who i love

[spartan55]

Not true. Love is half feelings, half conscious choice. Nice attempt to rationalize, but false.

[Brittanyroseee]

Excuse me?

[Brittanyroseee]

I think i would know if i love him😂🤦🏼‍♀️i love him more than anything else in my life besides my family

[spartan55]

Yeah, therein lies your problem.

[Brittanyroseee]

My problem? That is how it is😂

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not gonna go try and meet someone else if that is your advice 😂

[spartan55]

Never said that. So why are posting here griping about this guy fairly often. If he's so great what's the problem?

[driven159]

Some people don't know what they have might be time to move on and leave him to his trashy women

[Redhead999]

Because he believes you will put up with it and he's right. He thinks your a doormat.

[Anonymous]

maybe you really aren't all that like you proclaim you are...

[Brittanyroseee]

Excuse me?

[Opinion Owner]

just saying... maybe people see you aren't girlfriend worthy and to stay away.

[Brittanyroseee]

LOL. You don’t know the full story. The girls he gets with, are coked out and on drugs buddy

[Brittanyroseee]

But ok😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

ahah there you are... a narcissistic woman... thats why he's not with you. :)

[Brittanyroseee]

Narcissistic? I know exactly who he hangs out with…… all they do is use drugs and drink… but ok

[Brittanyroseee]

If anything he is the narcissist 😂

[Opinion Owner]

now now miss narcissist. lets not be mean to each other... or wait i guess you can't help yourself

[Brittanyroseee]

Mean? You came onto my question and began trash talking

[Brittanyroseee]

I know what a narcissist is bud and im not that😂you don’t even know him or know the full situation so don’t be sitting there acting like you do. I know exactly how he is as a person and i know who he kicks it with.

[Opinion Owner]

lol i only offered it as a possibility but your responses to me and others here just about confirm it for me.

i think you may need to take a hard look at yourself in the mirror someday and realize maybe you aren't as great as you think you are...

[Brittanyroseee]

If you think im mean, maybe that is your own issue to sort out because i never was once mean. You are the one who is trash talking and calling me a narcissist lol. I know exactly what one is. If anything, he is a narcissist buddy.

[Brittanyroseee]

Possibility? You are not a therapist or a doctor. Im not a narcissist 😂😂😂you don’t even know who I am or who he is or who he is friends with

[Opinion Owner]

haha you're hopeless. well i got better things to do than to talk to a narc on here. have a nice day bitching to people miss

*tips hat*

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not a narc😂troll

[Brittanyroseee]

Hopeless? Once again, you hopped onto my ask and began trash talking. You don’t even know me or him. You are very rude for calling me a narcissist. He is the narcissist not me. You are also not a therapist or a doctor.

[Opinion Owner]

byeeeeee

[Brittanyroseee]

Troll. You don’t know the full situation or know him or even know who he hangs out with

[TenkRealist]

Do you love him and want a relationship with him?

[Brittanyroseee]

Yes. And he has been knowing this for 3 years now

[TenkRealist]

Did you formally let him know you like him and he still didn't respond? If so, start looking for someone else to date. Don't be stuck in a friendzone. It is okay to be friends with him but yeah. Don't waste anymore time and start looking. Sorry, I'm not available 😅🤣

[Brittanyroseee]

Um he has always known please look back at my other questions. I wasn’t even trying to get with you. I don’t care about dating anyone else. I would rather much be single. No I can’t be just his friend either

[TenkRealist]

Okay. Your humour sense is not that great. Not really logical either. He's probably banging other girls and her you are talking about chronic bachelorette.

[Brittanyroseee]

My sense of humor? Excuse me?

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t even understand a word you are saying

[TenkRealist]

Right. Have a nice day. Now you're salty.

[Brittanyroseee]

You literally make no fuckin sense my guy

[Brittanyroseee]

I wasn’t even being sarcastic my dude. Look at my previous asks, you will understand the situation more.

[Brittanyroseee]

And for you to say you are not available? Bud, i was not thinking of getting with you. I don’t want to get with anyone

[TenkRealist]

How would I know you did previous questions? I can only judge based on what is before me.

[Brittanyroseee]

If you knew how to read, I specifically stated in the question to look at my previous asks about him.

[TenkRealist]

Dude. You think I'm about to get with some random girl from GAG? Really?

[Brittanyroseee]

Learn how to read please

[TenkRealist]

Yeah it says you "can". Not "must". Eg: optional/unecessary.

[TenkRealist]

Learn how to properly convey things, please.

[Brittanyroseee]

Learn how to read properly and make sense when you speak

[TenkRealist]

Why are you so salty? I'm not the one leaving you in the friendzone while banging/ being with other trashy girls

[Brittanyroseee]

Please leave

[TenkRealist]

Gladly. Please stop being so salty and serious.

[Brittanyroseee]

Nah, maybe next time make sense with what you sau

[Brittanyroseee]

Say*

[spartan55]

@tenkrealist
She's a real sweetie isn't she?

[Anonymous]

he’s looking for girls that are easier to fuck

[Brittanyroseee]

Makes sense