What gives. Should you triple text someone in a span of two weeks or let them be?

[Anonymous]

We've known each other for sometime. He was interested in a relationship while at the time I was not. We went our separate ways then reconnected shortly after as spring flings. During this time we've been more so sexually involved rather than "dating". We were like bunnies on a mission lol. I thought things were smooth sailing and was even thinking of the possibility of giving "US" a real chance, if he was still interested. So the other night I randomly get the notification that he unsent a few msgs. Didn't think much of it, since we hadn't seen each other in a few days.. but it felt like something was bothering him.. One night he calls me tipsy, he's going on telling me he doesn't want to be alone and that he wishes Id call him more often, and that he wants to talk. he's like half serious, half joking so I ask him about the deleted msgs. He refuses to tell me but insinuates it's things we'd only tell each other if we're both tipsy and invites me over for drinks. After some convincing I start to get ready when about 45 minutes later he msgs me saying not to come because apparently his parents were unexpectedly driving down to visit the next early morning. I tell him no worries, ask him if he's sure everythings okay. He replies " nah im chillin. It wouldn't be a modest way to meet the familia, would it? " . It felt like B. S but I let it be and we said Goodnight. I don't hear from after that. I've sent him 2 msgs but its been almost 2 weeks now & I've received ZIP. I was thinking since semester just ended to shoot him another text him, but I'm unsure if I should do that or let him come around if he decides.

[wheist9095]

No don't triple text him, He had his fun and then he ghosted you. Obviously he doesn't respect your time, so there's no point in holding on to a maybe when you know he doesn't want to be any real part of it.

People change, there ain't nothing wrong with having had your fun, but that doesn't mean he's a good match for you either. Sex and dating go together but one doesn't mean the other ones going to be perfect.

[Asker]

You can say that again. I guess timing just came by surprise.
Our last conversation he's asking of more from me, we talked about honesty when it came to any changing dynamics/ feelings, and he's there reassuring me, encouraging me and literally a few hours later he does THIS.

[Asker]

I guess I'm not sure if he was expecting me to blow up his phone , key his car... LOL or just take a hint.

[wheist9095]

Yeah, it's hard to tell what he was even thinking being that inconsistent. But hey the best answer is a nice quiet exit, that way you will maintain all your dignity and come out clean the other side