Why do guys feel entitled to your beauty as a woman?

[Kkstarzz96]

[motownplayer2000]

It’s honestly the same way with women and wealth. Almost every woman will expect to be taken care of in one way or another during a relationship. In the way she wants to be taken care of.. hmmm, kind of like how men want to be taken care of in certain ways. As far as the beauty goes.. no guy I think feels entitled to the beauty. That’s literally nothing they can physically benefit from. They benefit from what you can do to them and for them (99.9% it’s only physical or sexual). It is messed up, but so is the other side of the coin too.

[Kkstarzz96]

I think my question is more about how guys don't really flirt with you, they just directly say what they want and expect you to do what they say. Flirting is supposed to feel nice but they make me feel less than them. If a girl wanted something from a guy it would be rude if she just said I want it and expected it with no consideration to him, but for some reason, it's not weird when men do it to us. The worst part about it is it's not like women do not want men, we do, but your behavior actually turns us off when we were originally interested. The very thing we are attracted to also makes us not want to participate in the act of sex.

[motownplayer2000]

I hear you. But for me, as a guy, I like to get down to the point. I don’t like games and I don’t like wasting time. In all my years of experience with life and women. I’ve learned one thing. Chase money.. that’s it. Now, to your point, you said guys tell you want we want and expect you to do it… yes.. women do the same. But I’ve found that women try to make it seem like it’s something you want to do. It’s all manipulation with many many women. And as a man, I have to be very careful of that.

As for a woman telling a man what she wants… I welcome that. It’s would be nice if she wanted a man, she would have the nerve to go up to him and tell him she wants this. She wants x, y and z. Now the man has two options, just like a woman. Do what she wants, or say no.

As far as your comment for… “flirting is supposed to feel nice but they make me feel less than them.” You are a strong woman that has a lot of potential. I say that to my girl friends, my SO, my daughter. And I tell them, no one can make you feel a certain way.. you choose to feel that way. Because you want that approval or attention. I tell my daughter be direct with what you want. You may not get it. But don’t expect someone to know what you want or hope that it will happen. Go get it. Only way you can insure 50% of the outcome you desire.

One thing I will agree with, with you is your comment about the behavior. You are right, some men’s behavior can be very off putting and unattractive. But that’s human nature. Men aren’t attractive and attentive every minute of everyday. And women have those same behavioral traits that are extremely off putting and a turn off. But the difference is the way men and women operate on certain levels. Men won’t hold that against a woman as soon as a woman would. However, I respect your opinions. They have merit. But I do disagree with most of it. Lol

[Kkstarzz96]

You made points

[Anonymous]

Why do women feel entitled to a mans wealth and resources?

Honestly Neither gender is entitled to what the other has.. But a woman's beauty is what will attract a male.

[Kkstarzz96]

Entitled is not a word I'd use. I would only feel I was owed something if I did something for him that only benefits him. A gift is when you give something without expecting anything, and rarely do I feel I can gift my body and my time to a guy just because he says he wants it. I will grow tired and want my own pleasures. It's usually not directly related to spending, it's just the appreciation of me through affection and making memories.

[Opinion Owner]

you're not wrong here. My wife and i are the same.. Though nearly all of what i do for her, i do without the expectation of getting something in return, and same with her. But lots of women out there set their sights on a man with the express intention of bleeding him dry.

[Kkstarzz96]

If she uses the money for things he likes too then I don't see it being an issue. It's like when I try to explain to guys it's not a problem for me to be sexy for you, it's the fact guys do not acknowledge I also like to be turned on and yes, I think guys don't like to express themselves as sexual creatures, but with not much effort, I could get excited and feel enticed with pleasure. The same thing when girls say i want this I want that and guys roll their eyes. I also feel the same way when guys go on and on about their preferences and not ask about mine. I think it's natural to expect things, it's just not expected for it to be communicated, that because nature put woman and man together, we are just supposed to instinctively know what the other person wants.

[Chiarac2003]

Nobody is entitled to me…. Nor the fruits of my work ethic. But that doesn’t mean I’m unapproachable…jus not entitled 🎀💕💋

[Agape93]

Why indeed. Thankfully most guys aren't shit heads.

[Kkstarzz96]

Like I think guys are cute but I don't approach them and say hey I think you're cute so you have to satisfy my heterosexual needs LIKE WHAT

[jahaims]

I don't

[Anonymous]

What beauty?

[Kkstarzz96]

When you see a beautiful girl why do guys feel like they can just say hey take your clothes off without getting to know her. Of course not saying that exactly but having that attitude

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know I just pay 50 dollars and keep it pushing. I don't talk to women.
I guess westene men think it's worth it or. Funny.
Or see it as flirting

[Kkstarzz96]

What's wrong with talking to a woman you're doing it right now

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but I was trying to insult you. But chose not to. Also social media might as well be genderless you can be dude for a I know

[Kkstarzz96]

Why insult me like are you indenial that I'm worth your time hehe

[Opinion Owner]

No you didn't catch on to my insult so I moved on. But I answered your question.
Flirting
Funny
Societal cool points

[Kkstarzz96]

I did, in the same way I'm not responsible for if you think im pretty and I give you a boner, I'm also not responsible if you think I'm ugly and you gag, thats my point, I'm just existing and a guy shows up and says what he likes, and what he wants, and I haven't even said my name to him. It's weird and unfortunate

[Slim57]

What do you mean