Why do some guys give off mixed signals? ?

[Anonymous]

He's not a player, but is giving me mixed signals. He acts like he is interested, but at the same time seems to be keeping me at arm's length. It's so confusing

[bakajana]

I feel ya girl.
I had a huge crush on this guy so I told him and we started to get to know eachother. It was going well but after some days he started kind of ignoring me. Then I kept on trying to keep in contact or something (I even written him a letter with all my feelings and confusion asking him if he could tell me at least if he was interested or not). Maybe one day he replied or met me and the other again with ignoring me. It was kinda frustrating so I stopped caring cause I was just getting hurt by him. After a week and half he texted me if I wanted to meet at our spot. The next day he told me directly, since I've always been straightforward and honest to him, that he didn't even know what he wanted. That one day he didn't care and the other he wanted to date me. I understood that this was cause he didn't have any dating experience and that he was new to this stuff.
I'd tell u as an advice to just talk it out with him, maybe it won't work maybe it will, but at least you have things clear and know whats going on

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your detailed comment. This has helped a lot. Thanks again ❤

[bakajana]

My pleasure to have been even a little helpful, I hope everything will solve soon😊

[Asker]

Thank you ❤

[DannyUk2017]

These days... Girls (most of them) are after the wealth/financial gain, love, passion, chemistry, attraction doesn't exist anymore... so because of this, it builds a "wall of fear" so he wants to see how much you will "push through", if you can penetrate it or not...

[Jamie05rhs]

He's probably a slow mover. He takes relationships seriously, so he doesn't want to rush things.

Also, he's following what he has been taught by well-meaning advisors (whether they are technically correct or not.)

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Asker]

You are welcome

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t have a clue why anybody gives mixed signals. I wish people would just be honest instead of having somebody catch feelings and act like they never said what they said. Either they like you or don’t smh

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Check your energy and reasons you'd think intuitively that he's up to anything

[spartan55]

Could you elaborate on your situation?