Why are so many guys so damn dirty minded?

[Marianna546]

Why are so many guys on Instagram sending me dickpics and want nudes as well and if you won't do it they call you boring and stuff? Also why guys just can't take a no for an answer? In real life guys never approach me but on Instagram they for some reason are so confident and think they are in my league! Of course i won't say that i don't like the attention but I am not very mature yet because I went out with guys who literally made their intentions clear since day one and they literally didn't respect my boundaries at all... maybe i do something wrong and that's why guys act this way towards me? I deleted Instagram to never experience this abuse ever again... I can't take it anymore.

[hypojoe]

Because these boys were raised by the internet and its easy to send and talk through social media because there is a quick way out if things don't go there way I also blame the parents that are too lazy to teach some respect simply put if your 18 for example a 18 year old boy is more along the lines of a 14 year old and girls mature almost over nite one day playing with dolls next day its boys boys boys but the boys seem years behind

[Marianna546]

Yeah but I feel like a hoe sometimes lol

[KeithLane]

I bet you give good conversation. Hell with them.

[Marianna546]

Thankss heh

[VanessaValentine]

I can tell you. Men have balls. Those balls make sperm. When those balls fill up they tell the brain. The brain turns on the horny chemicals. The horny chemicals turn off the prefrontal cortex similar to a drunken state. Men do crazy things when horny.

[BarryLiverstone]

This

[VanessaValentine]

@BarryLiverstone I’m a biologist. All Mens actions can literally be explained through biochemistry. Sometimes us women want the “feelings explanation”.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes you are correct. But also sometimes women want to vent. Pretty sure the asker is just venting in this case

[VanessaValentine]

Every Straight man that ever existed: WORK Eat Relax Titties Sleep

[BarryLiverstone]

Sometimes not in that order

[BarryLiverstone]

Obv we do a lot more than that tho

[VanessaValentine]

@BarryLiverstone like what?

Work=killing, inventing, building, learning
Eat=BBQ, Pasta, Steak
Relax= Drink beer, play video games, take a shit, shoot shit, talk shit.
Titties=Seggs
Sleep= 😴

That is all the things men can do.

[BarryLiverstone]

Like sing, dance, support family, cook, mow my lawn, clean my house, drive, teach my niece to play softball, toss my nephew into the waves and have him beg for more, pray, worship God, cry with loved ones, volunteer.. maybe 109 more things

[Marianna546]

I agree but the way they were all doing that after i posted a story where i was clearly against guys wanting nudes or dick pics and they were a lot worse after that

[Wise4myage]

LOL.

[Guy__]

In one of my recent conversations to dizzydelsi's question I discussed this.
This isn't that simple.
For men, the feminizing hormones are necessary, estrogen and prolactin, when either of them is low men get low libido and sexual dysfunction.
Meaning super high testosterone causes sexual dysfunction as well as stopping spermatogenesis.
Also serotonin and dopamine agonism and antagonism should also be considered.

To delsi's question for help, when she was too horny and posted funny stuff... i said what i do. One of the things is I use a cold water hose and point it to my testes until they're numb cold. It's shown to increase testosterone and long term fertility (scientists use ice packs) and I also get more clear headed, and less sex obsessed.
I do lots more other crazy stuff that help for skyrocketting testosterone, specifically for bodybuilding (because what man doesn't need big muscles?) It turns out helpful with loneliness too. I still wake up with a brick and hump the pillow but I'm not feeling like I'll die if don't find a girl. Whenever I feel this way I near freeze my balls (and sometimes sunbathe them to warm back up)

Could be that cold showers cause us to burn glucose for heat, ending up lowering insulin which then in result lowers DHT the male hormone, but that just a hypothesis I just came up with right now. If that's the reason why cold showers work, that means eating low carb should work the same way. And everyone agrees that eating low carb helps with mental clarity... maybe because it downregulates fertility (to some extent)

[Guy__]

As always I write so much stuff that o forget the main reason I even begun.

I wanted to say that our balls may be full and still the neurotransmitters can modulated to stay cool.
Or our balls may be emptied 10 times in one day and we can turn on the horny chemicals.

It's sad that what you said is true for many guys, who exhaust their juices until they're unable to get it up again, and then when they're slightly replenished, all they do is oversex again because they have no self control.

[Guy__]

I had to come back to apologize. You're right about the prefrontal cortex.
While cooling the testes all day may keep libido at bay, I still couldn't put my cockiness away.

I didn't realize what a cock I was until I finally ejaculated 20 milliliters.
My behavior radically changed.
As I said I could make myself stop thinking about sex, but there still was a strong assertive behaviour I couldn't get rid of.

[Guy__]

I'm pretty sure though that the guys sending dickpics don't do it because their ballsacks are full, they probably empty them very frequently and are just choosing to not control themselves.

[Lionman95]

Sorry to hear your story, I think the main issue of modern guys is porn. Many guys watch porn on at leat a regular basis.
That's what keeps one from asking out a woman but it also completely destroys a guy's focuse and interest in a woman.
One of the main reasons why guys stop approaching is because we become more and more intimated by the thought of it and because most of us guys have interests than women do.
Many guys today want to wait for the moment when they are ready to settle down until then they want to enjoy life which often includes sex because they feel a need for that to f

[Lionman95]

find themselves. I think online approaching will be the future for the majority since the testosterone level is going down on average.

[humpbackjack]

You’re right you’ve done a few things wrong one thing is the guys you’re paying attention to are losers and you need to change how you go about picking them and the reason these guys pull this crap on you is because you let them. If you don’t want that type of attention then you straighten them out the first time they are even the slightest bit disrespectful. Lastly know your worth value yourself to a higher degree and don’t settle for losers of being treated that way. You’re worth more than what they can offer you for sure

[UniquelyBasic]

Well like you said you like the attention and were probably encouraging that behavior in some way by the type of pics you posted. Not saying its acceptable that they were sending you dick pics and what not but if a lot of men are doing this with you then at some point you're the common denominator.

[Marianna546]

Look my stories weren't provocative many guys even said that my stories are not so revealing like other girls but they still were turned on I don't know why though

[crmoore]

You're not doing anything wrong, most likely. The guys who message you online like that aren't representative of guys in general. In person, those guys don't do much, they certainly don't walk up to women and expose their genitals. But online they have like a barrier and they feel more confident in doing certain things. So online they're more likely to do that. But think about all the countless gigs who do see your photos who aren't sending you dick pics or who aren't even messaging you at all. I know all you see are these sort of guys, but trust me when I say they're the minority of guys.

[TheMajesticKing777]

You can ask any girl online and ask about similar situation and they have all delt with thirst waves, it's just one of the things that make the internet so toxic and unbearable I guess, not all guys sexually harass girls online tho, the internet hides people's face and they don't gotta speak up so it definitely gives confidence, for example I will struggle to socialize in real life but on here I speak like a normal human being.

[oliver4love]

Sick in the mind guy's do this because dick is not the key to enter in a girl heart ♥, for enter in a girl heart ♥ a girl need respect and understanding about emotions, when you respect a girl emotionally and accept her with her qualities and also with disqualities then she without any force give everything to a boy..

[Jabberjaw]

Personal opinion. All dudes have dirty thoughts. Some just don't manage to express it in a comfortable way and end up doing weird shit.

Like I didn't have a weird upbringing and porn today wasn't really like that when I was a teenager. But at 15 I was still fantasizing about 3somes with girls at my school. And that was as I was actively fighting those thoughts away lol

[Anonymous]

Forgive the dirty nails but that's not a dickpic, rather me showing off my digit ratio (my age is still 18)

Which as shown in the last video I shared with you, bill gates has in reverse. Indicating his real gender. Because females tend to have shorter ring fingers.

[Opinion Owner]

19 in 4 weeks

[Birdlegs]

People become bold behind a screen since generally there are no reprocussions

[clampfan101]

There are many mature men, too. Maybe Instagram is just a place that attracts immature guys? Maybe it’s like expecting to find someone mature at a bar? lol (I never use it, so I don't know.)

[Anonymous]

You might be too friendly with them.

Also you seem pretty gorgeous too !

[Marianna546]

Thanks and yeah i am too friendly i told my principal about two guys who stalk me after that and she told me to be very careful lol

[Marianna546]

I should mature more ig

[Opinion Owner]

yes sweetheart beauty

[Anonymous]

We only need you for your holes.
Plus, women eat, sleep, and breathe sex.
Everything you do is geared towards getting sexual attention from men.
You just want to pick and choose who it comes from. But you don’t get to do that.

[motownplayer2000]

They want what they want

[Marianna546]

Lol but it's kind of odd

[motownplayer2000]

Normal. I mean, when you want something from someone, don’t you drop hints or ask for it.. or intentionally do stuff to get it?

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like you did the right thing.

[Marianna546]

Well i think they are just perverts

[Marianna546]

I mean the first thing they thought of when we had a date was to fuck me or kiss me THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW ME

[Wise4myage]

You are correct, and they have no manners either.

[Marianna546]

The manners are lacking for sure

[Wise4myage]

Look at It this way, they are showing their true colors and so your not wasting any more time on them. :)

[Marianna546]

I agree but the thing is that my mom saw those stupid chats i had with them and she is disappointed that i was even replying to them

[athlete_for_lyf]

Biology we are hardwired to have sex as much as we can whereas women to bear and nurture the seeds.

[urpapi69]

You could have changed the setting of who was allowed to text you

[Anonymous]

If you don't have a willy you don't get the silly. Sorry!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s not a guy that’s a sex pervert

[SignedAutographs]

Oh, I've seen much worse from lots more women

[Anonymous]

another sex object got it