Why did he seemed interested in me so much then ghosted me, was it all about sex?

[Lyhra4]

I denied a guy sex on the first date and after that I sent him a text and we talked on the past week everyday. I went on vacations and he said that he would like to meet but I said I had to go but when I came back we would schedule anything, in which he said I'll be waiting. yesterday I texted him and he didn't reply, today the same thing... this is driving me crazy.. I can't understand why is he doing me this 😭😭😭😭

[RHK36]

Sounds like it was possibly about the sex, however you did sound like you kept putting him on the back burner. Understandable you're busy, but equally understandable that he didn't want to keep being put on hold.

[Lyhra4]

I didn't put him on back burner I just had vacations planned before we met. But I told him that when I came back I would tell him that's what I did and he didn't reply...

[Lyhra4]

There's no justification to simply stop texting me, cause actually I texted him when I arrived our country again

[RHK36]

I mean a person doesn't need a reason to stop talking to someone new, they can do whatever however they want. I'm not saying I agree with his reasoning or actions. I'm just suggesting he was probably put off based on the limited info.

[Lyhra4]

I know he doesn't owe me anything, but the thing is that if I wasn't interested I wouldn't be texting him when I arrived. Actually I was trying to schedule something which he didn't even allow.

[RHK36]

Chances are he was talking to at least one other girl. She gave him more attention. It's all speculation really. Tbh he ain't worth even asking about.

[Lyhra4]

I don't really think it's a mater of attention cause actually we talked a lot past week. Maybe someone gave him more easily what he wants

[SeekingVirginWife]

Should have dated me, I never ghosted anyone. I am a virgin saving myself for marriage.

I even let fat and ugly women know how bad they look, I believe in honesty.

[LazerBean]

In short, yes.

[Lyhra4]

I feel miserable honestly 😭

[LazerBean]

You shouldn't, if it really was just about sex then he's a loser anyway.

[Lyhra4]

Thank you