I met and see this guy through common friends, who are mostly his group of friends (I know some people in that group and sometimes get invited). Initially he was nice to me, a bit flirty. He is handsome and charming and was not indifferent to it, and I proposed him to go for a drink just the two of us to chat about some common interests. He said he’d love to but pretty much ghosted me afterwards. I’ve never really insisted or behaved differently around him after that but he pretty much stopped talking to me. I try to behave in a friendly way just like with other people of the group, as I’d like to just transform the dynamic and be friends but he is not responsive. I can’t tell if he’s embarrassed or pissed off. He won’t even answer messages and I know he’s very kind and responsive with other people in the group. I don’t know how to turn the page on this initial small misunderstanding (mostly caused by himself…) as he’s completely shutting off…
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Just sounds like he is not intrested in you in that way or believed u liked him and thats why he acts cold now
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Probably crushed on you and maybe found out your taken and now wants like nothing to do with you.
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You keep talking about acting like an adult, yet you won't even talk to him about it... yeah that makes sense.
Can't you be honest and ask him sincerely if you did something that offended him?
Just be the bigger person and don't let him get under your skin
What's wrong with you?
Why would you entertain this at all?Either ask him or just move on.
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