Why do women mistake sexual attention for relationship attention?

[Anonymous]

Women feel like if a guy who she thinks is really attractive has sex with her, then she can get a guy like that to date her. Just because a guy wants to fuck you doesn't mean he wants to take you seriously. Most guys will fuck average or below average girls. Thats why i laugh or smh when girls brag about guys they sleep with. How do you guys feel about that?

[FilmGuy93]

A lot of women believe that their sex is a big part of what they need to bring to the table in a relationship. The phrase "I am the table" is something you hear from a lot of women when you ask about what value they feel they bring to a relationship.

[Asker]

Yes thats true but why brag about getting sex from a guy when most any woman can sleep with any guy but not the other way around

[FilmGuy93]

She probably feels good about hooking up with desirable men. Banging a hottie will be an accomplishment whether they stick around or not.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason men mistake pleasantries for sexual interest

[Asker]

Yea cuz those guys are not used to interacting with women

[In_Trance]

or it's wishful thinking

[Asker]

Yea it can be that aswell

[Anonymous]

Tell the woman up front you aren't interested in a relationship, just sex. She may no longer be interested, but you were honest and avoided an unpleasant situation.

[hhadeshatesme]

My guess would be cause most men talk out of their ass and fake feelings

[Asker]

Sometimes men have to fake stuff to get sex. Men can't be up front a lot of the time

[hhadeshatesme]

If you know men bullshit to get in a girls pants why ask the original question? There’s your answer

[Asker]

Women look for anything to disqualify men in the first place. Men can't be upfront im not saying to lie and say you want to be in a relationship. Women do the same shit , they know thier guy friends want to sleep with them but use them for money, attention and protection without giving them anything which makes that even worse

[GurlMaster40]

I would say cus we see relationship attention and what we want relationship attention to be, differently. If you could give me some examples of the mix ups of between relationship attention and sexual attention I might be able to help a bit more. 🙂

[Anonymous]

they will ignore it

https://www.youtube.com/embed/VI6XWGKvUrE

[jahaims]

The people that do that lie to theirselves

[Asker]

Thats very true