Friend medic in my platoon told me he cheated on his wife recently, what should I do? (Page 2)

[Snsl153]

Stay out of it! That's what you should do. It doesn't concern you.

[Avicenna]

I wouldn't get involved with that since infidelity is punishable by the UCMJ.

[NathanDavis]

I've seen people being murdered over these things...

[Marshymallow]

Do whatever your mind tells you to. I usually don’t like getting involved with people BS

[Xtendable]

How often do guys fabricate tales of sexual exploits to try and impress their colleagues, mates or random other blokes?

I would wait for more evidence if you’re intent on telling his missus. Something concrete.

[xJayleenx]

Yeah I think that you’re doing the right thing. My conscious would kill me if I didn’t tell her too. Poor woman probably wasted years on that guy.

[Shy_Steve]

If your sure no one will find out it's you then there is nothing stopping you, But if your not really sure if someone will find out then you shouldn't do it and you will regret it if you do.

[Zeus_66]

Not your business and stay out of other people's affairs.

[SiberFox]

Tell him you'll tell her if he doesn't then follow up and tell her later on

[JessieBellll]

It has nothing to do with you. It's their problem, just mind your business and don't be a pain in the ass.

[Snakeyes7]

I'd say it is best not to get involved. Let his wife find this out on her own.

[Asker]

Why would it be best to not get involved?

Best for whom exactly?

[Snakeyes7]

For everyone, yourself especially. For all you know what the guy is saying isn't really true and bringing it up with his wife will needlessly cause strife.

Go ahead and get involved if you want but if I were you this doesn't sound like it is any of my business.

[fireforeffect]

Tell him that you are sorry that he broke his vows to his wife, and that he should pray to Jesus for forgiverness.

[driven159]

Just stay out of it you will end up in the middle of their hate and anger she needs to find out on her own

[noohair]

And what do you gain from this. And you might lose the trust of your fellow solders. Remember, they watch your 6.

[spartan55]

I'd definitely stay anonymous.

[DizzyDesii]

Its the military and i’d be a bit scared that one of the spouses may go suicidal or that the dude may end up with ptsd and act all out. And like someone else said, i’d hope he wasn't petty and didn't have my back on the field because i ruined his marriage. But had this not been military, i’d be ten times more tempted to snitch too.!

[Staximus]

I would just stay out of their business. His wife is not your old friend or family.

[nawtee_me]

Do you know his wife? Did he tell you in confidence? (keep a secret) How do you feel about it?

[IsoUser]

I wouldn't ever cover for he or she that would just make you complicit.

[truthisthree]

I dont blame you I was young also

leave the military you are being used by BIG BROTHER

[exitseven]

Really, you should mind your own business.

[Asker]

I’m good pal, thanks for the advice though.

[BlackBeauty90]

@exitseven - why? Why should he be quiet when his 'friend' admitted that he's a douchebag? Some loser whose wife is too good for him? Hmmm...

[exitseven]

@BlackBeauty90 sorry, but this guy told him in confidence and he should not betray that.

[Asker]

He didn’t really tell me in confidence

He just randomly/spontaneously said it

[BlackBeauty90]

@exitseven - so if someone told you in confidence that they raped or murdered someone you wouldn't say anything? Hmmm... Who has the lower morals/ethics? You, the rapist or the murderer?

[exitseven]

@BlackBeauty90 damn, you just had to come up with a good argument.

[BlackBeauty90]

@exitseven - thank you. People easily say "mind your own business" but in many situations minding one's own business gets someone else hurt. Or worse. Take abuse. There have been many times when spousal or child abuse could be stopped early if people stopped minding their own business.