Guys, should I dm him saying I want space or not?

[Anonymous]

Should i dm my guy best friend that i think we should stop talking for? Or I should just stop replying? What is the more mature way?

/I've feelings for him and he has hurt me, can't keep doing this/

[BarryLiverstone]

More mature to dm him and try to reset your relationship. If he wants to try and meet your needs then talk to him. If he can’t then say goodbye. But don’t just ghost because you will feel guilty and it’s disrespectful to him. You are hurt and sad.. tell him.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you think he can grow and change or are you convinced he will just keep hurting you?

[Asker]

I'm not sure if you've read the additional details I wrote under savagewolf22 comment. When he dmed me after the 10months he said he is matured. His actions ever since prove wrong

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep I read those comments and saw that he hasn’t yet replied to you. But if his actions have proven you are not needing his friendship then might as well tell him goodbye. That’s for you to have closure overall.

[Asker]

We chatted briefly the next day meaning yesterday. I sent him memes but with 4 8 9 hour gap. /wasn't in the mood to talk/ I dmed him 6hours ago saying I'll probably go clubbing today with my other friend but he hasn't responded me

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ok. So you are ready to cut him off right? Guess that will happen this weekend. You mentioned you still have feelings for him, how do they affect your decisions?

[Asker]

Ain't easy lol I either continue to talk to him, ignoring my feelings and being in pain or I suggesting we should stop talking for a few months /tho I'm not sure how he will react/

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope it’s not easy. After 4 years it should be messy and challenging and complex. Just means he matters to you

[Asker]

As a guy how do you think he will react? Tho I'm sure I dont matter to him who knows that much lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Go ahead and follow me and I’ll try to give you the guys perspective. Seems like this is going into a conversation rather than answering your question. As a guy it depends

[Asker]

Followed you

[FilmGuy93]

Yes! Absolutely be clear that you want space.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Why dont YOU give US space?
Permanantly.

[Asker]

Fuck off

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Get trolled, TROLL 😘😘😘

[Asker]

You need help. No wonder you get no pussy

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

I am not a pussy chaser like other assholes and pimps. Or like your DAD. 😘

[Asker]

I literally went through your answers. You said you are a virgin dude. You're 23. If you don't change your attitude you'll be a virgin forever. Now peace off

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Ooh stalker aleeeeeert 😂😂😂
Well, i am saving myself for the CORRECT WOMAN who gonna be with me during my whole life. I am not a broken pussy who hooks up with anyone and anyone.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Anyone and everyone*

[Asker]

No woman will date a child like you.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

No men will date with a WHORE like you, babygirl 😘

[Asker]

Lol I'm not a whore. I feel sad about you. Keep living in your delusions

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Yeah sure. I am sure that your bestie/boyfriend/ex knows that you fucked with his best friend then with his best friend then with your own dad, nasty whore. 😉

[Asker]

You're 23 from Turkey

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Yes, so?