A young colleague of mine praises me a lot and expressed that she really likes me. She would love to be my partner. I have a husband. But since I know that my colleague likes me, I have become emotionally attached to him. And I'm starting to like him too. Since then I've started comparing myself to younger girls and it frustrates me. I wonder how long he will like me and I am scared of the future. I am also jealous. These all make me feel bad and ashamed. What can I do?
Ignore the horrible reply on here. Its completely normal to get feelings for someone even when you're in a relationship. People are complicated not everything is black and white! It's what you do that matters. Maybe you need to sit back and think about your relationship with your husband.. are you happy? Are you missing anything? Can it be fixed etc. Maybe try spending some time with him to figure this out and step back from your coworker for a little bit until you know how you really feel. Don't worry you're not a bad person, you just need to be honest with everyone involved
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This was sort of confusing. Your female partner praises you a lot and wants to be your partner, but it’s making you attached to your husband and liking him again? Maybe there’s a mix up there or something...
If the dude doesn’t respect your current relationship he’s a scumbag and will move on once the next catch arrives.
Figure out if you want to remain married, THEN make the decision.
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I love how you list all of your selfish concerns, and NONE of them mention your husband. You are gross.
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