Why is it that I ever befriend a guy , he always wants something more?

[Haha456]

Every time i hangout with a male acquaintance, he always ends up wanting something more. If i refuse it, 90% of the time he never sees me again.

[Maybe_1day]

That's why us men's slightly feel insecure when we hear our girls are out with their male friends. Because we (not generalising) believe that a friend is not always a friend. One way or other, one day, the guys (Friends) surely take a different approach. But each time we mention it, we are accused of control freak, insecure and so on. So see... Even you're admitting that they want more than a friendship. Of course some may disagree saying "The close friends are different" but all I can say is this... "go try even a slight move, and see their reaction" then come and tell me what ever you like. Opposite genders have to understand one thing... Not generalising again but majority of the time, two opposite genders cannot be "JUST FRIENDS". Accept it pls.

[Maybe_1day]

@secret sorry. Didn't mean to send a friend request, just tried to check your profile.

[RavVid]

I take it you mean they want to have sex with you?

I think we operate on the basis a 0.0000000000000000000000001% chance is better than 0 which is what we have if we don't try.

[Sarahplus2]

You can't be friends with men like you are with women. Some men will read your signals of friendliness as sexual interest. They are probably sexually attracted to you and over preceive you being friendly as interest in them

[OlderAndWiser]

It may be a result to the kind of guys you are choosing to approach, maybe your physical appearance, or something else. Why do you think it happens?

[pizzalovershouse]

Cuz they want ether sex or a girl friend