Did I get textbook ran game on by this dude?

[Anonymous]

Hello.

I was talking to a guy for about 3 weeks and we had sex for the first time this past Saturday night. The sex was crazy magnetic. It happened so fast because the chemistry between us was just insane.

The following day he was sending me sexually explicit text etc. There wasn't really any communication about seeing me again or liking me, enjoying our time etc.

Just a few text about how he wanted to F**k me next. This kind of made me feel yuck like I was just a sex object to him.

I got kind of thrown off as it seemed like that was his only interest in me. I confronted him by saying I felt a little skeezed out that maybe he manipulated me into think he wanted to actually date me or pursue a relationship just to get the kitty.

He replied by being insulted I would accuse him of manipulating the situation.

We pretty much haven't spoken sense. I was really into him so my feelings got hurt.

I saw him watching everything I post online and liking it, he was constantly interacting with me indirectly through social media.

I unfollowed him because it hurt my feelings even more that he was nodding at me on social media but I hadn't actually heard from him personally in 3 days.

I feel really gross like my gut was right and he just manipulated me/ ran game.

I did catch a little bit of feelings because I don't have casual sex and that means a lot to me.

[PrettyPriya]

I think what happened here is you found yourself a really immature guy. Once he got in your pants, that is all that was on his mind. Is this manipulation... maybe. I call it more you found out what this guy was all about.

He put in the work in the beginning to get you in bed and once he did, that is all he could think about and want at that point. Once he found that you weren't having it, he turned on you.

Honestly, I'm not surprised this day in age when it seems some guys have the only goal of getting in your pants and then once they actually do, they act immaturely. I am not generalizing guys. There are plenty of good ones out there that don't do this.

Unfortunately, you found one that had a goal, achieved it and then acting like a teenager. I would say good riddance and move on. Sorry to hear about this situation.

[Asker]

Thanks, you are sweet. I appreciate you.

[PrettyPriya]

You're welcome and sorry again you had to deal with a rubbish situation.

[Guy13]

Yep, boys get caught-up in Success. Men watch and plot and gently implement... until you cussssss our name with a blushing :-)

[Guy13]

Make sense?

[Asker]

yea lame to lie to someone though and manipulate their emotions. That's why women eventually just stop being nice and start using y'all for money.

[Guy13]

No argument from me. Perhaps, you need to find yourself one who attends so that Cussing Is and enough financials to make your work life enjoyable but not stressful. I am sure they are out there bottom dwelling in the Catfish pond.. bitching with the Boys about the damn feminists. That's a dangerous hook... fishing that deep... dragging a line though.-Even in the Sound ;-)

[Avicenna]

Sounds like someone that doesn’t communicate well

[Asker]

The funniest part about that, is he told me his biggest must have in a partnership is honest and open communication. lol!

[Avicenna]

LOL...

[SiberFox]

Always establish a relationship before sex.

[JohnK123]

*since

learn vocab first

[Asker]

You have nothing better to do with your time than be an online forum spelling and grammar police. Yuck.

[JohnK123]

Oh no I do lmao talking to friends here and correcting le incompetant

Lmao alright millennial