Why is he acting like this after just meeting?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy almost a month ago and we had went on a first date last Friday there was a few things that happened but me and the guy were just friends, I was drunk and I noticed someone was calling me so I answered the first and it was another guy friend of mines and I kept it brief told him I was out and to call me later so the guy I was hanging out with got all in his feelings and started acting weird then a couple of days later he cursed me out and he's been talking about since then so just the other day we talked and we hooked up now I feel like I shouldn't have done that since he's already obsessed with me, he'd send me these 3 word messages saying smh and I'd reply but then he doesn't respond it's starting to get weird.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I dated for about 2 months before we got into a relationship. We were both also seeing other people at the time too. Showing signs of jealousy after a first date is a huge red flag. You're not committed yet. You dont owe him shit, sister lol

[Asker]

Yeah your right like I'm not upset at him for seeing other people and I told him I wasn't looking for anything serious. I thought he was cool to talk to but he started threatening me saying he'd start rumors that are not true then I thought we talked about it but recently he starts sending me 3 word messages saying smh like I really did something then I reply then he doesn't respond

[Opinion Owner]

Cut all ties and run! Sounds like the kind of guy who wants to own you

[Asker]

Yeah it's too much

[Anonymous]

I would get out of that. He’s already disrespected you greatly by calling and cussing you out, now the jealousy and insecurity issues it’s just too much. You will only deal with more of that going forward and I guarantee it will escalate. You can’t change what you’ve done with him and the time invested, but you can change the present and future by getting rid of him.

[Avicenna]

Time to move on if you're weirded out

[Asker]

Right. What is the 3 word messages for