Every time he goes cold is the same scenario. He is lovely for weeks and then a day before going cold he starts acting toxic.
Example: “Hey, you don’t love me anymore because you are replying late or leaving me on read” (not true) “don’t tell me good night , I’m not leaving yet… 🙂” “Why you never call me Im always calling first”
We've been taking for 5 months and we met on Facebook. He did the same thing a month ago and I blocked him and unblocked and he contacted me again. It doesn’t feel like an online relationship and I’m the one pushing the meeting. He calls me almost everyday after work, texts me all day when he gets a chance, checks on me, wants a formal a relationship.
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The meeting away**
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I’m the ones who’s pushing the meeting away***
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It's difficult to say for certain why this person is acting cold or toxic towards you without more information about your specific circumstances and interactions with them. However, it's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and understanding in all relationships.
If this person's behavior is causing you distress or discomfort, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with them about how you're feeling and what you need in the relationship. You may want to express your concerns about their sudden shifts in attitude and ask for clarification on what's causing them to act this way.
If this person is unwilling or unable to provide a satisfactory explanation or to work towards improving the relationship, it may be best to consider ending the relationship and focusing on your own well-being. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and safety, and to surround yourself with people who treat you with kindness, respect, and understanding.
Sounds like the interest in his part might be fading, but ask him before you make any serious decisions