I just found out my boyfriend doesn’t think I’m pretty, but he finds my personality interesting. It makes me feel bad about myself, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

It was a casual conversation between us, and he told me that his first impression of me was he doesn’t think I’m pretty, but he do finds my personality interesting. I guess it bothers me a lot because I’m insecure about myself and this whole time I thought I was at least beautiful in his eyes. He told me I’m beautiful from time to time and he also told me that the longer we’ve been together, I’ve become more beautiful. But, I’m not so sure anymore, I have doubts that what he said this whole time wasn’t true at all. Like the time when he told me I’m pretty, or the time when he said I have always been pretty. He might not remember this but one time I asked him why he wants to be with me, and he told me because I’m beautiful.

[ohsheeT]

That's what he's trying to do is make you feel bad about yourself he's going to try to break you he's trying to manipulate you you know damn well that you're beautiful girl you know damn well that you're a beautiful girl on the inside too you know damn well that you have a beautiful heart if a guy did his dating you it starts telling you that it's a manipulation to get you to go leaving lower down to his level don't go for it don't even allow it to happen tell him when he grows the fuck up he can come back and see you

[Theabcking]

It sounds like he's smoking something. He's trying to make you feel special, but he is too high and failed miserably. That's what I think. I don't understand why he would say something so stupid lol

[devilish-cutie]

he might havesaid beuatiful not just regarding looks but in general so it might have not been a lie. He also maybe wasn't so attracte to you in the begining lookwise but more personality wise but with time your looked better to him, it happens w some people when they get to know you more. But sure its best to tell him how you feel and talk to him

[Anonymous]

I'm not a guy but I think beauty isn't everything. The guy I'm in love with is average at best by aesthetic standards and I still find him super super attractive. You can be loveable and attractive without being beautiful. And your boyfriend DOES think you're beautiful now, doesn't he?

[Iron_Man]

How do you know for sure he really feels that way

[Asker]

I’m not sure, but it does make me question about the time when he told me I’m pretty. He’s always been so honest about everything so I’m kinda shook by the fact that was his first impression of me. And I guess it shook my confidence too.

[Iron_Man]

You need to talk to the guy face-to-face very seriously and find out

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s less about what he thinks, it’s about what you think. Do you think you are attractive?

[Ngo6itbdn]

Boyfriends are users. If youd not married you're single.

[Guy13]

You sure he’s guy for you?

[Anonymous]

You need a better boyfriend.