Few weeks ago went to confront my ex boyfriend about something and it went left because we tongue kissed 4 times and he touches me but has a girlfrie?

[Anonymous]

Few weeks ago I went to go confront my ex about something that was brought to my attention but after talking about the situation he proceeded to get up and stood in front of me and picked me up and we hugged but he also was making eye contact with me by trying to stare and look at me in my eyes and then he started touching my private parts back to back (fingering) and then I sat on top of him and then we tongue kissed 4 times and then he started rubbing on my buttocks and then when his friend pulled up to his house he tried to play it off and act like nothing happened because he claims he has a new girlfriend but I heard that he’s been cheating on her but Claims he wouldn’t leave her for me but I don’t want him to and plus he’s been defending my name when I’m not around so what does this mean?

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What should I do about this situation? I need advice and answers

[Avicenna]

It means he wants to have his cake and eat it too- he wants you as a side chick.

[Asker]

I would have to disagree with this one because we haven’t been with each other in a minute plus he don’t even want to do it he just wanted to finger me because he says that he has a so called girlfriend but I told him if that’s the case then why would you tongue kiss me back to back and touch my private area and rub on my butt

[Anonymous]

He wants both of you. Nothing unusual there.

[Asker]

Yeah I would have to agree but he was making comments like oh Why would I leave my girl for you which is I don’t want that for him plus he likes to compare his new girlfriend to me which is strange because he tends to do it out of nowhere which is annoying because I don’t ever compare no other boy to him or compare him to anyone else and also he was acting hot and cold

[Sandeeppingping]

You're getting played too easily...

[Sandeeppingping]

Answer for the update:Walk away and never talk to him again, dude doesn't and won't want anything serious so you'll end up hurt, so don't put yourself in that position

[Asker]

I agree which is why I felt like my time was waisted by him because he’s the one who was literally rushing to hurry up and be in a relationship with me just to break up with me and leave me every month and for me to be left dealing with everything in that toxic relationship which is why I don’t want to have anything to do with him anymore because I’ve had 6 months waisted with him just for him to hurt me purposely

[Guy13]

He is confused…

[Guy13]

I am too a little bit. How long broken up. How long ago this happen. What’s going on like today? Any contact?

[Asker]

What do you mean? If you don’t mind explaining because I might just have to agree with that answer

[Guy13]

How long did you two date?

[Guy13]

Hat is communication like now?

[Asker]

Okay so basically we were dating for only 6 and a half months and we’ve been broken up for almost 5 months now but the thing is that we don’t keep in contact he blocked my number and he unfollowed me on tik tok and he blocked me on my main page on Instagram but this just happened like 3 or 4 weeks ago but we don’t really have any contact within each other and by the way we were in a on and off again relationship because he kept leaving me and breaking up with me every month but in may when we broke up he was blaming me for a lot of things that wasn’t my fault and he said that were not going to get back together but it’s very confusing

[Asker]

And also when he sees me out and about since he knows my family members cause he hangs around them he has been defending me when I’m not around but also when I am around he was trying to act like he doesn’t know me for some reason cause we would barely talk to each other but I notice that he will look at me or what not

[Guy13]

You must be an attractive lady. I had a girlfriend like you. It was always electric when we saw each other... even though she was not honest with me. I had to avoid her like the plague. Change my drinking hole for a long while... If that flies between you guy... oh my !!

[Asker]

Yeah I’m very attractive and all 😂 but I feel like that’s not an excuse because like I said he’s in a new relationship

[Guy13]

You know you should completely walk away from this SO do it !! If he does it for you THEN he will do it too you.-Rule of Relationship

[Asker]

Yeah I walked away because he’s in a whole other relationship and it’s not okay for him to be doing the things that he did while he’s in a other relationship with someone else and which is why he’s acting hot and cold towards me because he literally was trying to play it off like nothing ever happened and was like oh Um theirs nothing to tell or say because nothing ever happened when a lot happened at his house but a lot of people have told me that they think that he did all of this because theirs still feelings their that are still mutual which is weird because way before this even happened weeks prior to this happening I went over his house way before this happened and me and him were arguing and were not on the same page so it’s crazy how this time when I went back to his house to try to have another conversation with him about something important I didn’t expect this to happen for him to come on to me like that when he knows he has a so called girlfriend

[Asker]

Yeah he’s very confused asf

[Guy13]

😎😎