This guy came to a small gathering I had as a friend’s plus one and we hit it off right away and hung out the entire night. He was very flirtatious and spent close to the end of the party together and had a little “cuddle.” Towards the end of the night, we exchanged instagrams and he asked me for my phone number and asked me when I was leaving for university because he wanted to see each other again before I left. I walked him to his car and he asked for a kiss but I said no and that maybe next time we hang out. It was all great and I told him to send me a message when him and his friend got home. We had a very brief (like 2 texts ish) conversation over text until I responded 6 hours later. That’s where he then left me on read. I don’t know if I said anything wrong or what the reason is, but he hasn’t messaged me and it’s been 2 days. Is there something I did that was wrong? Is there anything I could do to get his attention?
It certainly doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. What time was this text you sent last read? Just curious as that might have something to do with it. The other thing worth mentioning is that guys (in general) are not into texting nearly as much as girls.
I always make mention of my fiancé and how texting with him is sometimes like pulling teeth. He will leave me on read all the time. It is frustrating, but that is just the way he is.
I still don't see what you could have done wrong. That points to something else. Perhaps he read it and was busy and then forgot completely. There is nothing wrong with reaching out again.
Maybe text him something about wanting to meet up again. Something like: "Hey, I really had fun hanging out the other night. Any chance you still want to meet up before you head off to university?"
You get the idea. If nothing comes back, then I would say it is not worth trying anymore. You just never know though if something came up and he forgot.
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Maybe he's just busy, or he didn't like that you didn't want to kiss him (which is perfectly fine by the way and your right to say no).
Either text him "I would love to see you again on [date] at [location]", thus taking initiative, or you'll let it go and move on to the next person.
There are two things I can see for this, A is that he's busy with something more important or B could be another girl that's given him a better offer or C just doesn't take you very seriously anymore. Besides two days isn't really that long.
Sounds like a weirdo with some personal bullshit that you are better off not being a part of.
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Two days isn’t that long
probably got a better offer
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