Am I right to feel disrespected he said “I can have you for one night and your boyfriend can take u home have you the next day” ?

[Anonymous]

[quaranta]

Disrespected for sure because he is basically saying he sees you as a sex toy, as if you are some inferior being without your vision of the things, not worth even considering (your relationship, your monogamy with him, your feelings for your boyfriend etc). It's very diminishing to say.
Regardless, he says he "can" have you. What? He has you only if you decide so, he cannot have you out of nowhere by his decision only, that's kind of ridiculous to read.
If an ex fling said that to me I'd just not reply, like what the hell, who are you to randomly think and even say that to me? How am I interested to hear your bullshit in your vision of the things? What would I be supposed to say? I would avoid him in real life because this is an aggressive approach so I would expect him to try not respecting me in real life either, through some weird actions. And I'd find his attempt desperate and pathetic, like, resorting to verbal aggression to seduce me? Bah... Sure mate, it's working, "yes".

[NotTacocaT6969]

Yes. He’s talking about using you as a sex object he’s willing to share with other men.


He sounds like the type who would rape someone. Be careful.

[RyanDeal009876]

He thinks he's some kind of stud that can fuck anybody's girlfriend.

He doesn't have the personality to keep a relationship going so this is what he does.

[EaterPeter]

Absolutely. Not let anyone else decide for you that whether you're right or not about the way you feel.

[Anonymous]

Yes it is disrespectful. Why are you friends w him? Who is he?

[Guy13]

Yes as that is uncalled for

[Asker]

He’s on old fling. It makes it sound like he doesn’t respect me or relationships or my boyfriend and he doesn’t respect himself and he is trying to say he wants to use me so weird

[Guy13]

Exactly. Who’s got time to deal with that kind of Stupid🤷🏻‍♂️ Out of my Contacts for sure ‼️

[spartan55]

Uh... yeah

[Asker]

How do I let guys know it’s not okay to just speak to me however they want without seeming like a dramatic b*tch?

[spartan55]

I would just express calmly that you don't appreciate that and then don't associate with him any more.

[spartan55]

If you keep hanging out with him he will think it's okay to act like that, regardless of what you say.

[MikeInHawaii]

Yes!