Is my partner controlling?

[Anonymous]

My partner asks me everyday 5 times a day where I am and we even got in a fight yesterday I barely managed to calm him down he said "you are not honest!!" and that i am lying when i said i am almost home and even asked after i said many times sorry please calm down were you even at work? I also deleted one time one of our pics together when i was really angry at him he then saw it started texting me all day

[BTCMoon]

Your partner is insecure due to likely onset trauma that occurred in his past. You have two choices.

1) You can judge him for how he's reacting to this trauma, think about yourself, and make the decision to leave if that's something you're not willing to deal with.

2) You can understand that we live in a broken world, and your partner is hurting a lot. You can make the decision to be that person to help mend some of their wounds.

It's up to you, but these are the choices that I see for you.

[Guy13]

What does your gut tell you? This is the best place to start..

Secondly, how did the relationship begin? were you two up in each other crack every second? Can you describe that first 6 month feeling... Did you feel enormously special?

[mandyfire98]

Controlling and ridiculously insecure. Not a fun combo

[boggboss]

Clearly he is and dont trust u

[Wise4myage]

Yep, he is definitely a controlling person.

[Wise4myage]

And he's also an insecure fool.

[Asker]

If you only knew... he was so angry that he even said he knows he's right, and i try to make it sound like he's coming up with everything he saying/thinks

[Wise4myage]

That's gotta be suffocating.

[Calenderagressive]

Definitely controlling