Why would you assume he has a girlfriend? Have you ever spoken to him before? Seems to me is he's nervous and doesn't want to stare too long because that might make you uncomfortable and then he gets flustered, looks down, and fidgets with his hair; all signs of nervous/anxious energy. He likely wants to approach you but doesn't know when a good time would be or what to say (if you haven't spoken). Lots of guys are bludgeoned with the whole "don't approach women at the gym" messaging, so his behavior is not all that surprising.
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My opinion: He's insecure and lacks confidence. Period.
Why he won't resume eye contact and approach you is either because he expects and fears rejection or because he's afraid you'd say 'yes' and he won't measure up.
Either way, he doesn't feel adequate for whatever reason, true or not. Dating him will be a constant stream of emotional attachment full of approval and validation seeking behaviors you're not interested in dealing with. Trust me. Good luck!
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Depends. If you seem to like each other. Then it’s I guess he figures not a problem. Otherwise it can be creepy.
I don’t want to be rude. I can only speak form personal experience. I’m no psychic, people can speak from their own perspective. Which I assume you want.
But. I can’t tell you. Why another guy is doing something. Even for myself. Why I would do something. Is totally dependent on the situation.He doesn't want you to report him for being "creepy" or "ick", and getting him thrown out if the gym.
He likes you, but is either too shy to approach or he might not find the gym the ideal place to connect and communicate with women. People are mainly their to workout so I'm not interested in trying to get an Attractive Woman's number there. The only exception is if it's completely obvious she wants me to approach. Otherwise, I'm just their to workout. That's the way I see it.
Because he thinks she is hot and he is embarrassed. He likes you but he should have approached you...
Yeah, he should own up to staring at you instead of falsifying being so interested in looking at the ground. In this case, I’m not sure what’s weirder, looking at you or staring a hole into the ground.
What do you want him to do, keep staring at you after he's caught? lol
i did that two nights ago stared at the ground cause she hurt me really bad
He's starring at you because you're starring at him. Maybe you're making him feel uncomfortable
Guy is shy or wanking to too much porn.
Go talk to him
of course, depends, any where but her
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