How Would You Feel If Your Guy Always Picked Your Hairstyle?

[Gloree]

He is always picking my hairstyle. I like it but he always has a line of hairstyles I have to do.

He picks the right hairstyles that I like but I read an article that said this is a sign of control.

Girls, how would you feel? Guys, did you ever do this and why?

[worldscolide]

I would never do it. My wife knows I dislike short hair on a girl.. Short hair meaning above the ears.. That's literally the only opinion I have on a woman's heir. Beyond that as long as I can play with it I don't care what she does with it.

[msc545]

Do you know why this matters to him? Does he do this with other things like your clothing?

[Gloree]

Not the clothing. Just the hair. And when I asked he said he admires the different styles women carry and when he sees the one he likes he imagines it on me so he just takes. a screenshot so he can get to see me wear it.

[msc545]

Sounds like a fetish... if that is all there is, that might not be so bad.

[msc545]

Oh, wait - what do you think of the hairstyles he wants? Are they difficult to do? If they are, maybe you should ask him to pay to have them done professionally...

Do you think this is a sexual thing with him?

[Gloree]

not difficult. mostly braids

[msc545]

seems harmless but if it bothers you tell him to stop it.

[Gloree]

he pays for it. thanks for ur opinion. I will just leave it. I talked to my friends and they said they wished their guys cared enough to do thesame.

[WhitneySnow]

I would not like that. I wanna pick my own hairstyle.

[Andres77]

Why do you let him?

no one has power over us unless we give it to them.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's what happens when you get into a single-income relationship.