What makes a guy decide they want something serious with a woman? (Page 2)

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I (34) met a guy (31) who at first said he only wanted friends. But then we started talking and over time he started flirting with me and stuff. Then 2 weeks in we made plans to go out and I asked if we were going as friends, and he said "I thought it was a date?".  So we went out and he kissed me, and then he asked what I thought of him. And if I wanted to be friends, friends with benefits, have a relationship, etc. He said that wanted to be my boyfriend. I had to think about it for bit and I agreed to be his girlfriend. We only kissed and messed around a little. No sex yet, and he hasn't tried to pressure me for sex either.  I'm going to his family's house tomorrow to dance and hang out. We are both latino, so that part is normal culturally. But I just think it's interesting that he started out saying he only wanted friends, and suddenly he said he wanted something serious with me. This is the first time it's happened this way, so I'd like to get some guys opinions on this.

Anonymous · Answer

He decides to get serious whenever his other situation doesn’t work out in his favor

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

He's just wants sex and he's telling you what you want to hear in order to get it

msc545 · Answer

Sex hormones and a reckless disregard for personal safety.

thorboy · Answer

they get an erection when she's around or dream about her.

Fuentes · Answer

Depends on him. I know nothing makes me decide that. I just want money

melanieeeB · Answer

The woman and how he feels about her

In_Trance · Answer

guys never want to be friends; he lied to you

Anonymous · Answer

No, you don't want my opinion.

Anonymous · Answer

How good the sex is.

Anonymous · Answer

Sex, what else? Money some do

Anonymous · Answer

Big boobs

What makes a guy decide they want something serious with a woman? (Page 2)

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