Guys, do you have a distinction on what makes a man a simp?

[MCheetah]

What, in your definition, makes a man a simp?

I say option C is my definition of a simp: any man who wastes money on women, online or offline, who don't deserve it, such as paying for women you just met on first dates and trying to bribe your way into her pants. That makes a simp a simp, to me.

Any guy who spends ANY amount of money on a woman, whatsoever, at ANY time, is a simp.

Any guy who spends ANY money on women who aren't family, friends, or partners, such as Christmas and birthday presents for female coworkers, is a simp.

Any guy who wastes money on undeserving women he just recently met, such as paying for women on first dates or buying them presents, is a simp.

Any guy who wastes money on undeserving entitled women who don't care about him, online OR offline, expecting nothing in return, such as strip club goers, is a simp.

Any guy who wastes money to random women online who don't know or care about him, such as OnlyFans subscribers, Twitch stream donations, and FinDom "tributes," is a simp.

I AM a simp and see nothing wrong with it. 🤪

Other (please explain below). 💵

[Summeroflove]

My definition is I guess doing stuff for sexual attention. Not because he just likes her content. But specifically to get attention from her or paying for something sexual like onlyfans

I also think it’s one thing to take up for someone who you feel was wronged or in the right.

But there is white knights who defend the indefensible just because he thinks she’s attractive and wants to be on her side so she likes him….

Women can be simps sometimes too…. I think it’s cringeworthy.

There is also people who just call someone a SIMP because they think it will just end the argument and they’ll be right. Even if they aren’t a simp.

On GAG I have been accused of both being a simp and a misogynistic pig…. When I’m neither. It just depended on the situation

[inhua]

there's a lot but my simple definition of a simp would be someone who upholds the double standard of shunning and complaining about "toxic masculinity" but at the same time enforcing and perpetuating it for some moral high ground.

one such example would be the complaint that men are too stoic and hold in their true emotions too much but when those same men express their true emotions and it's not what the simps (and feminists too) like hearing, those men get labelled toxic, whiney, sexist, misogynistic, entitled, incels etc.

basically reinforcing that you can't win as a man no matter what option you take unless you fake it, especially in a western gynocentric social order.

[Fuentes]

Pussy is Pussy to me, their only simps in my book if they spent money and didn't get any.

But if u out here sending girls money just cause, white knighting clearly dumb hoes you don't even know & paying for OF when all that ish is free anyway if you know how to find it in other leaked areas and can watch porn for free. And bending over backwards for women and demasculating yourself is a simp in my eyes.

[TroyDT2]

The guy who spends loads of money at a bar on drinks for a girl in hopes of scoring, only to have some other guy swoop in and take her home. Or any guy who spends a lot of time and resources trying to bed a girl who has a habit of sleeping with dudes on the first date.

[Rockstarrrrr]

You know a simp when you see one... but If I could describe it a little... A guy who gives too much attention to a girl he knows he doesn't have a chance with.. Or treating an easy girl like a goddess lol... And of course the classic simp... Drools on every girl he sees because he got nothing to lose lol...

[JesseJayNeak]

D. If she’s undeserving and you spend money on her for sex, YOU’RE A SIMP!