Why he is so obsessed after 6 years?

[120591]

6 years ago I’ve met a guy while i was 20 travelling around the world. We met in London and we’ve been working together for like 5-6 months before taking different direction. There was clearly some physical attraction between us but we just kissed on the night he left ( he wanted to have sex but I did’t ) I’ve met him again after 2 months and we went out for a drink.. I could feel again that strong physical attraction but didn’t do anything as he had a girlfriend at the time. Since then I’ve never seen him again but we kept talking thought the years, I haven’t seen him in 6 years and he has been in different relationship but he constantly keep texting me that he wanted me so bad and that he was thinking about me all the times etc.. even now it is still the same he is basically obsessed with me. Is this weird? How can you be so obsessed with a person that you haven’t seen in 6 years? Did anyone experience this?

[FilmGuy93]

He's just lusting for you. It's nothing crazy, he's just replaying a fantasy in his head that he never had the chance to see if it was real or not.

[DubiousIntentions]

He just lusts after you is all. You are one notch on his bedpost that he didn't get is my theory. Only he knows the real reason. Now, why are YOU obsessing over it?

[CoolCatMar1]

Maybe she is just curious

[CanadianLearner]

Could be Limerence, look it up.

[Danny_dan92]

He wants your pussy. Duh

[Anonymous]

The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

[Anonymous]

You really had an impact on him.

[120591]

But if it is in a sexual way after 6 years it is very hard to keep a sexual attraction as you haven't seen that person for such a long time

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, he must have other issues.