Dom/sub affair catching feelings?

[Anonymous]

We agreed from the get go that feelings werent going to be involved since we are both in long term relationships and have our own families. He has 3 kids and I have one. Both our home lives really suck. Obviously I care about him to an extent. We have a dom/sub dynamic, he is only a year older then I.

A while ago he started making eye contact, putting his forehead to mine and kisses me more during the deed. In the beginning we agreed no cuddling, now we do. He always teases me about having feelings for him. Sometimes I think he wants me to confess something we agreed wasn't going to be there.

Am I over thinking these new actions or is it time to call it quits.

Updates

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We have been using eachother as an escape from our day to day lives for around a year now. No pet names for eachother. We dont hang out outside of sleeping with eachother.

[NamerOfStars]

Agreeing that feelings aren't going to be involved when you start having sex is like agreeing that falling won't be involved when you drop something. You can control your reactions to it, but you can't stop it from happening.

[Fireguy17]

over time it is very common for a bond to begin.
you are bumping pee pees and trusting each other with intimate acts, so yes that can happen esp if your home lives suck like you indicated.
Welcome to being human!

[Guy13]

Relationships!! Who knows but sounds like one that is not dull. Same issues as everyone else too, eh?

[Avicenna]

It's time to quit this