Why would he purposely try to hurt me?

[Anonymous]

Hey

This was the most heart crushing thing to hear...

This guy knows I want to hang out with him and he always says he's got work to do... he and I have a bit of history but he won't fully let me go even though I told him too and to stop confusing me

So today he says he can stop by quick but can't hangout later because he has someone coming over... when he told me that I just said cool have a goodnight it was so hurtful... he made time for someone else and that should tell me all I need to know... but why hurt me purposely? Because he knew that would

Thanks

[EricJonesAB]

If it was another woman coming over then you should probably dump him. You have feelings for him but he doesn't value you. It's your choice if you want to share basically a friend with benefits, or have an actual partner who wants only you.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Just get away from this guy. He is leveraging your feelings, clearly. Do not let him. It's not cool on his part.

[Anonymous]

it could of been a relative or someone he hasn't seen in years or a really long time or could of been some sort of emergency type situation. did you at least ask him?