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Crush's mental health?

History: My crush rejected me a few weeks ago. I'm still kinda hurt, but understand his reasoning. We're not exactly talking but that was more my decision to make some distance to organize my feelings.

Lately, and even before I confessed. I noticed he's been really down. We share the some of the same friends and he's been distant, quiet and just not himself. Even more recently I overheard him saying some things about himself that I didn't like at all. Seems he has a lot more going on personally.

I initially left him alone as I assumed he wouldn't want me in his business, but like I said the things I heard a few days ago I'm finding hard to ignore, and I'm genuinely concerned. I don't know if he has anyone to talk to about it.

I'd like to try and reach out - offer an ear and all that. But I'm still really unsure if it would be welcome. On the other hand I'd hate to think no-one wanted to listen. Would I be overstepping by asking about it? In his situation, where you're feeling down about yourself, would you want someone like me checking in on you? Am I just going to stress him out more?

Crush's mental health?
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