He isn't replying to my apology?

[Anonymous]

I've been chatting to a guy for 3 weeks. We are yet to meet. We both have connected well and share a lot. Recently, he asked if we were to meet is he allowed to feel me but if i'm uncomfortable he won't. I got annoyed and said if it was for sex I do not want to meet. He got angry and said he would have initiated awhile back if it was for sex and I haven't understood him. I did accept my misunderstanding and apologised, however he hasn't responded in over a day. Should I try again or he's just left?

[SteveSmith1985]

Are you sure you want to hear from this guy? His reaction to you seems... off.

What exactly are you apologizing for exactly? 'For... getting annoyed because you took his request to 'feel you' when you two meet... as him possibly being interested in sex when you two meet'

DId I get that right?

Is there something I missed?

There must be something I'm missing because this is fucking ridiculous.

So... now... let's say that this guy truly isn't after sex. He... can't imagine where your reaction might come from? He can't imagine where you're getting this impression he wants sex?

WHY THE HELL IS THIS GUY EVEN UPSET?

This whole thing about him being really mad is some manipulative power play bullshit. So is not replying to your apology. What kind of person would make you feel an apology was due for what you said?

WHAT YOU SAID WAS TOTALLY REASONABLE

What kind of guy would make you worry, and grovel and let you squirm while you wonder if/when he's going to reply?

This is a red flag. Definitely.

This is not at all an appropriate reaction on his part.

Either this guy is the most sensitive bitch I've ever seen in my life. Or... he's purposely fucking with you with a longer-game plan for getting you under his thumb.

This... is a guy you're definitely best to just never talk to or see again.

He's making you feel guilty for nothing. Now ignoring the apology (for something so little and understandable) is clearly some messed up bullshit.

Wait. If he never replies GOOD. This guy is fucked. What's going to happen when he's upset at something... a little more significant than this most minor of all possible things.

This guy is not someone you want to continue with. I cannot in any universe, imagine a decent guy acting like this.

[Anonymous]

Fuck that fool he was just trying to smash that ass. Now that you called him out on it he’s trying to turn things around on you to make you feel bad which is what happened. Why would he need to touch you? If he ad said something like can I hold your hands or get a hug that may have been different. But he said he wanted to touch which could be anywhere.

[watercolor_lions]

This guy is full of shit and you should move on.

If a guy wants to feel you up, he's looking for sex. There is nothing unsexual about that. It might not be immediate, but he's looking for it soon enough.

Move on. You can do better.

[melanieeeB]

Just ignore it, he sounds pretty creepy. I'm sure he was just for the sex, you called it out and he tried to guilt trip you and screamed "oh no way!" And now he is ignoring you cause he knows he won't get what he wants that fast lol

[DeeDeeDeVour]

He's quite aggressive to ask for such before an initial meeting.

What's disappointing is that he got upset and you had to apologize for having values.

You should be glad such a conflict of interest has been exposed now while it's early.

[Mangospacho]

So he got to hinting that he was interested in having the sex the very first time you meet and you clarified that you were not interested in having the sex the very first time you meet and he got offended and YOU apologized? Why are you apologizing for that and why are you waiting anxiously for him to accept your apology? He’s probably out looking for another hookup by this point.

[Bklynbadboy12]

No don't try anymore this guy is an asshole if he doesn't speak to you because of that and it tells you that all he wanted was sex cause if he wasn't after that the fact that your not ready to be sexual with him would bother him as much cause he didn't want that anyway

[raven6933]

In my opinion give it a few more days. He could have been honest in that but something says he got pissy because you seen what his hidden agenda was. He sounds extremely immature.

[Crazy_Girl1992]

Sounds to me like he got called out and got mad. He's probably moved on to his next victim. Just consider yourself lucky. Move on from him he's not worth it.

[Guy13]

This guy sounds a little creepy to me. Stuff like this is heat of the moment. Yeah, run from this one.

[kylee2437]

Sounds like he’s mad he got called out on his BS. Not worth it. If he was really there for more than just that - he would’ve asked you out on a date

[Belgie]

You can't force anyone to accept your apology.

[AdithyaR]

He asked if he can feel you? That's a very weirdly creepy thing to ask. You doged a bullet. Forget him.

[mraplex]

Definitely forget this person.

It‘s clear that he was texting you for sex and nothing else.

He probably texts someone else for the same reason right now. Don‘t worry about that guy and move on :)

[aaron210419]

Have some respect for yourself and realize you dodged a bullet.

[Stevefiveo]

His silence is his answer to your apology. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Any man who wants ANY sort of physical intimacy is only in it for sex. Never date anyone who's physically attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

You already posted this question and the overwhelming response was that he's a piece of shit and you shouldn't even consider meeting him.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's being an idiot. Best to just leave him alone.

[Anonymous]

I would just ignore him and move on. He is not worth it.

[Cheerfull009]

He does not care for you, forget him, go to other guy

[Avicenna]

Don’t apologize again

[zariahdp]

Yeah he’s guilt tripping you just move on

[hafinjun]

You got off lucky let it lie.