What is he really thinking?

[Chanel94]

We hit it of really well, met through work (virtually). We share similar interests and have a fun time talking to eachother. He would text me everyday and remember little things about me in past conversations and would tell me about something in his day that reminded him of me. We had a hear to heart and I shared a childhood trauma experience with him.

He reassured me some times when he wouldn't text me right away or whatever letting me know he was busy because I overthinking a lot.

Them he texted less but still would text me every other day or interact somehow at work. I would ask about if he is dating or how he feels about me and what he feels what we have is, platonic or romantic, but he avoids answering that question.

I really really like him, I'm afraid I scare him away but he still talks to me when he does.. but him not letting me know what's up after a couple of months of us getting to know eachother is kind of making me annoyed and anxious.

I don't know what to do or think, but my mind is always thinking about him

[icedragoom]

So from what I read he is just being friendly with you have you ever meet him off line and it's not you pushing him away its him not being interested in a relationship and he is avoiding the question cause he does not want to hurt your feelings he probably sees you as a nice coworker or a good friend

[kylee2437]

So this is where you need to speak up for yourself and ask him what he wants out of this situation. He can’t read your mind and you can’t magically read his

[Chanel94]

You're right, even though I've told him I had feelings and what not, he never expressed his and its frustrating

[kylee2437]

@chanel94 something I’ve learned is never admit your feelings to a man until he has proved and given you proper reasoning to catch feelings. Always ask a man what he wants out of the situation first because you can like him all he wants, but if he doesn’t want a relationship he will use your feelings as an ego rise.

[Chanel94]

You're absolutely right!

He's going to keep avoiding telling me what he wants though I feel... but I think I'm going to have to give him an ultimatum... tell me what you want out of me or leave me tf alone

[kylee2437]

@chanel94 don’t give him an ultimatum, just ask him what he wants from this situation and if his answer doesn’t match your wants, I suggest leaving him alone

[Guy13]

We don't like texting. Don't worry about it. Call and leave vociemail.