Is it normal for a guy who has a girlfriend to compliment you a lot?

[Anonymous]

I became friends with this guy not to long ago and we get along really well. I wouldn’t say we’re close but we’re close enough to know that he has a girlfriend. In fact he talks about his girlfriend a lot. But his actions confuse me sometimes. He’d shower me compliments everytime we talk. He would stop a convo to tell me I’m beautiful, call me “his beautiful friend” tells me “I’m sharing my beautiful face” to the public and then talk about his girlfriend after. Is it normal for guys to do that to their friends? Is he just being nice and friendly?

[DaveJord]

Yeah, its normal for guy to do to women they call their friends, but they really want to fuck. He only wants to be your friend, because he is dating someone else and he wants you to know that, but then still hitting on you, while pretending to be just your friend in order to get inside your head.

I know, I know... you are going ask why he would do this, right? Well because he is a sleezy guy that want to condition you to the idea that he has a girlfriend but he really likes you so he can fuck. Or maybe he will eventually break up with his girlfriend and then try to slide into a relationship with you. So, he does what he is doing to get into your head, so you get confused about it. Because look he has you thinking about it right now, and more you think about it, the more you start considering things.

What do about it... honestly if you want to fuck then fuck him, something tells me he would do it. But the right thing to do is tell this guy that he needs to stop, because it is making you uncomfortable and its inappropriate to say things like to so some other women when he is already in a relation. Friends or not, its unattractive, and it's just not right, because you don not apricate it. Then stop fooling yourself that your just freinds with this guy, because he wants to get with you.

[spartan55]

Your friend is a snake. He's laying groundwork for when things go south with his girlfriend. Stay away if you're smart.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, what @spartan55 said... that's the short version of what I said. Well done, Spartan!!! I agree!

[dustybiker]

Not really normal, no. Maybe bring up his girlfriend when he starts that again.

[Summeroflove]

It depends. It he complements others it’s normal. A complement is a complement

[DaveJord]

Yeah right, stop... you know this guy wants to bone... stop pretending... lol

[Summeroflove]

@DaveJord really does depend on the dude not all men are the same

[In_Trance]

Ask his girlfriend; she'll know?