Was he staring at her ass or was he telling the truth ( can you guys tell)?

[Anonymous]

My aunt was taking a pictures in a position that you could see her ass my boyfriend moved his head side to side but kept his eyes there and he said “ oh they are taking pictures” I told him that he was kind of zoned out staring and he said “I was looking at you you must be blind! You know what I really don’t care what you think” and he put his hand up. Could he be telling the truth? I don’t know when guys lie. Deep down inside I was hoping that it didn’t happen but I’m also wondering if maybe im just super insecure and that did not happen that’s what I want to believe.

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I told him later like why were you staring at my aunt’s ass? And he responded like that. But I don’t know if I’m insecure because my aunt is very attractive.

[Anonymous]

Looking means nothing. Sometimes, it's not even consciously done. If a scantily clad, well endowed woman walks by you on the sidewalk, you're gonna notice.


So what? He looked at your aunt's ass. Do you really there's any chance of infidelity there?


The real issue is your insecurity. That will ruin your relationship. You're not always wrong, you didn't imagine it happening, enough with the self doubt and over dramatizing. Nothing is more attractive than confidence.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Totally agree

[AMS700CX4u2]

Men have a peekaboo mentality. Sorry but it is the way we are built. And women rely on it. What is a lowcut blouse but an invitation to look at cleavage. If no one looked you would not do it.

[dean53AU]

Staring at it, while trying not to look and failing miserably 🤣
It's human nature, can't help but look at a nice ass..
No matter how hard trying not to. 🤣🤣

[Asker]

Im always told that I’m wrong so I always doubt myself but I was keeping an eye on him to make sure that he wasn’t doing that so how could I be wrong? Maybe I am wrong because I always am wrong.

[Asker]

But now I feel like I ruined new years we were having a cute moment. He’s not even an ass guy he likes thighs.

[Asker]

I really don’t want to think about it

[Asker]

My life is just constantly filled with suffering

[dean53AU]

It's one of those occasions where its unavoidable but usually quite innocent

[dean53AU]

Im sorry to hear that x

[Asker]

He really said “I don’t care what you think” raised his hand and left me. I feel like I ruined the whole thing but wasn’t he kind of rude?

[dean53AU]

Definitely rude

[Asker]

Maybe it was getting dark and i wasn’t seeing well

[dean53AU]

If he sounded rude it was because you caught him peeking and he felt bad

[Asker]

I really don’t know I used to have bad paranoia. He doesn’t seem to feel bad he’s with my family and I’m in the room alone.

[dean53AU]

Its nothing to worry about, let it go, not worth stressing over x

[Asker]

Maybe it didn’t happen

[dean53AU]

Possible too...

[AMS700CX4u2]

Wait till you get older it gets worse, Especially when it seem the fire in your woman has gone out. Or worse, she cuts you off. It almost throws your wedding vows in the trash. I think that is why ministers tell you that "God does not want you to get married" Truthfully, that confused me. I understand it now. Sovereignty. Don't make vows to things you can't control.

[Stevefiveo]

It's not a big deal that he was checking out your aunt's ass. Although you might have embarrassed him while calling him out on it. So your aunt has a nice ass, can you blame him for looking?

[CuriousMufuxka]

Why does it matter? Guys are going to look at girlie asses! With age comes the experience of stealth checking it out.